ooglesnboogles Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I feel sorry for this poor girl. I'm thinking we should all chip in to send her to a place where they teach Krav Maga so she can rip out the balls of any dude who tries to pull some crap like this. Even if you thought it was common sense that you weren't attracted to her (why the hell would it be?) what point is there in saying something like that in front of a social group? 4
darkmoon Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 So honesty is being a jerk now? but don't you ike being tactful sometimes?
edgygirl Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 So honesty is being a jerk now? Oh lord he can't even tell he's being a jerk. I rest my case! 5
xxoo Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 There's nothing wrong with the reasons that I like her. That's ultimately for her to decide. Does she seem happy with your reasons, now that they are out in the open? 1
edgygirl Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I'd love to see this girl finding a 10/10 guy in med school, passing Kevn by and saying: sorry, I also can't deal with a 5 6
Fondue Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Since we were young, we promote liking each other for our "character" and who is on the "inside." This person clearly exemplifies this, as he is with a woman because he finds her inner beauty to be just that-- beautiful. And you are all trying to villainize him for it? Hypocrites. 1
KraftDinner Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I hope this isn't for real. If it is, OP, please let her go, for her sake.
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 :sick: So what's better having sex with her but having to watch porn or cheating on her? Obviously the first option there. Even if you thought it was common sense that you weren't attracted to her (why the hell would it be?) what point is there in saying something like that in front of a social group? I didn't think about it, I just said it. I was watching a hockey game and I got asked. That's ultimately for her to decide. Does she seem happy with your reasons, now that they are out in the open? She doesn't seem to care. I'd love to see this girl finding a 10/10 guy in med school, passing Kevn by and saying: sorry, I also can't deal with a 5 She's constantly saying that she's never been as attracted to someone else so I don't see that happening.
TheZebra Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Since we were young, we promote liking each other for our "character" and who is on the "inside." This person clearly exemplifies this, as he is with a woman because he finds her inner beauty to be just that-- beautiful. And you are all trying to villainize him for it? Hypocrites. Dunno about you, but when I love a man for who he is, and I mean real love, then he's the most attractive man in the world to me. He would never be a '6' 9
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Since we were young, we promote liking each other for our "character" and who is on the "inside." This person clearly exemplifies this, as he is with a woman because he finds her inner beauty to be just that-- beautiful. And you are all trying to villainize him for it? Hypocrites. There, exactly.
KraftDinner Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Since we were young, we promote liking each other for our "character" and who is on the "inside." This person clearly exemplifies this, as he is with a woman because he finds her inner beauty to be just that-- beautiful. And you are all trying to villainize him for it? Hypocrites. Fair enough, as long as you'd be okay with a woman telling you you had the smallest dink she's ever seen. Since we were young, we were told honesty is the best policy, right? 5
KungFuJoe Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Since we were young, we promote liking each other for our "character" and who is on the "inside." This person clearly exemplifies this, as he is with a woman because he finds her inner beauty to be just that-- beautiful. And you are all trying to villainize him for it? Hypocrites. I think most people have a problem with op's lack of tact. 7
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 I think most people have a problem with op's lack of tact. I was asked for my opinion and I said it. It's not like I go around every day telling her that she is ugly.
Author Kevn Posted January 9, 2013 Author Posted January 9, 2013 Those are not your only two options. Yes, they are.
darkmoon Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 (edited) I was asked for my opinion and I said it. It's not like I go around every day telling her that she is ugly. this thread's title asked "should a girl be upset be upset if....she's told she's a 6.?" we all saying yes she should, you asked - we're being "honest" with you Edited January 9, 2013 by darkmoon 3
Ruby Slippers Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 If the OP isn't a troll... this relationship is over, and you killed it. She'll most likely dump you for the first guy she likes who sees her as more than a 6. 4
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 And this my forum friends is why a man Should not date a woman he is not attracted to! 5
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Since we were young, we promote liking each other for our "character" and who is on the "inside." This person clearly exemplifies this, as he is with a woman because he finds her inner beauty to be just that-- beautiful. And you are all trying to villainize him for it? Hypocrites. This! So much this. How many of you have told me and other men strugling with women that we should settle for that women we are not attracted to because she might have a good personality. This is what happens! Do you really want to put a poor woman through it?! Next time you try suggesting that some dude date the overweight girl think about this thread. 1
FitChick Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 And yet several posters on this thread have claimed in other threads that you should NEVER lie. "If he lied about X, he'd lie about everything!" Silly people. 2
Maneater Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 I feel bad for her just reading this thread... 2
Fondue Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 This! So much this. How many of you have told me and other men strugling with women that we should settle for that women we are not attracted to because she might have a good personality. This is what happens! Do you really want to put a poor woman through it?! Next time you try suggesting that some dude date the overweight girl think about this thread. Yah, after reading this thread and the reaction most of these women gave validates that we simply can't take advice on this forum seriously. People talk about both sides of their mouth. 1
edgygirl Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 Yah, after reading this thread and the reaction most of these women gave validates that we simply can't take advice on this forum seriously. People talk about both sides of their mouth. So you think it's perfectly okay that: 1) He told her to her face AND in a social setting, in front of their friends, that she's a 5; 2) He'll continue dating her if the only way he can have sex with her is if he watches porn at the same time. Is it fair to her, as she obviously wasn't aware this is the case? People were not judging him for falling for her personality first. This wasn't the point. 4
ThaWholigan Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 This thread is mental. OP, you should have just said she's a 9 or something. That ratings sh*t is BS anyway, but still.....that must have been extremely embarrassing for her. Your comment that she should have known sounds a bit disingenuous in all honesty - if you're with her, she will assume you find her attractive, especially physically/sexually. Obviously you like everything else about her, but you seem to have put your foot in it, and now she must feel confused about how much you actually like her. Do you really want to continue with her? If so, then you will have to do some serious making up to her at this point. You will have to prove to her that you really want her, in all ways. Personally, I have no idea why you are even with her - I understand you like all the other stuff, but still...... 5
somedude81 Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 So you think it's perfectly okay that: 1) He told her to her face AND in a social setting, in front of their friends, that she's a 5; 2) He'll continue dating her if the only way he can have sex with her is if he watches porn at the same time. Is it fair to her, as she obviously wasn't aware this is the case? People were not judging him for falling for her personality first. This wasn't the point. Edgy, how does anything you said relate to what he posted?
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 9, 2013 Posted January 9, 2013 So wait, you tell a girl the equivalent that you don't find her very attractive, and she's the one with the problem? You got some learnin to do. Women say equivalent or worse things to men all the time. Stuff like, "I didn't find you attractive at first, but you grew on me (like a fungus?)" But they expect men to just take it. 1
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