trevjim Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Ok so long story short, myself and ex mutualy split up, she got with an old flame a day later, and refused to let me see the step child I helped raise for the last 2 and a half years. he is 3 and a half. as my name was on the lease I agreed to pay part rent until I found out new guy was moving in at which I refused to. 6 weeks after breaking She threatend to take me to court if I didn't pay, so we both agreed to talk about it and find a solution. It was the first time I had seen or heard from her since Christmas, I pulled up outside and she came into the car whilst new boyfriend babysat. We talked about the rent and got that sorted (im gonna pay half until the new guy moves in next month) then I asked about the child and she showed me photos and for the first time in weeks she and myself ended up reminising and asking about family and telling jokes, it was lovely, she asked me how I was, although I'm still devestated she has moved on so quick, I told a lie that I am doing good, I agree we should of broken up but I'm really sad I don't get to see the child (thats not a lie, I am really sad, he was my son). We even talked about sexual things a bit and she kept looking at me as if she was deep in thought. She also told me when I asked how she was that the new/old guy makes her happy and she feels 'relaxed' around him and that each day is calm. im genuinly happy for her but to me that screams that she is just enjoying the calmness of the new relationship after our intense but rocky one and not actually in love with him? surley if that's the case they won't last?
na49 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 im genuinly happy for her but to me that screams that she is just enjoying the calmness of the new relationship after our intense but rocky one and not actually in love with him? Umm... what makes you say that? That's your interpretation of it. You can convince yourself that this is the case. But she obviously loves him enough to be with him. If she wanted calmness she would be single.
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