gabss Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Please I need help, or words of advice, or... I just need someone to listen. I just started dating a guy who is 21 years old, I'm 27. I have never felt this way about anybody, which is heartbreaking because I so want this to work, I feel like it's him who i had been waiting for all my life! I want to be positive, because I am usually so negative about relationships. I don't look 27 AT ALL, I even look younger than him, but let's be honest... I'm a woman with a cruel biological clock, he's a guy with all the time in the world. I am so incredibly in love with this person, did I mention I live 2 hours away by plane? I come home twice every 4 months, and i stay for an entire month every 4 months. We are both in school since I had to backtrack and go back to school because up until I was 25 I had no idea what I was supposed to do with my life. I am 2 years away from being finished and then I can come back home, but in the meantime what should I do? We are really in love, and I leave in a week, it has been so hard on both of us, just thinking of being apart. He's worried that he may not be able to give me what I deserve, because he is younger, and he thinks I want material things, but I don't, I want him. I really, really, really, really care about him, we have some of the same friends, he has older friends and I have some younger friends, we are really in similar places in life, except for well, I'm 27! please help...
FitChick Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 The problem isn't age. It's your living two hours away by plane. Don't even worry about a biological clock. You have another ten years. 3
veggirl Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 How long have you even known this guy? Did you just meet him on this trip home or something? Cause it sounds like you're freaking out way too much over a new relationship that hasn't even left the honeymoon stage yet. Is he ready for a serious relationship, does he want to get married and all that? Not saying to you necessarily but is he even in that stage of his life yet or are you worried you'll waste time with him? 2 hours by plane isn't bad, esp with the full month you see him, and if he can fly out to visit you as well...
Kylar Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 If he's willing to have a long distance relationship with an older girl, and his main concern is doing his best to make you happy with material things. Don't worry your golden.
Alia_alia Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I really, really, really, really care about him This is what matters. Everything else is just blab. I am with a 2 year younger right now and we are awesome. Actually the best couple I know is composed of a 24yo Male and 30 yo Female. They're both model beautiful. I think there's something about the maturity of us older girls that makes us attractive. I don't know how this will be 20 years down the line. (41 - 47, there might be a difference), but again you don't know if you'll ever get to that point so no need to worry now.
Ninjainpajamas Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 At 21 not only do you not know jack about love or relationships, you do what your penis tells you to. I feel sorry for the guy here. You sound extremely immature for 27, I'll give you that.
nessaaa Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 At 21 not only do you not know jack about love or relationships, you do what your penis tells you to. I feel sorry for the guy here. You sound extremely immature for 27, I'll give you that. At 21 u dont know jack about love? Thats b.s Is there really much of a difference between a 21 yr old and a 27yr old?
KungFuJoe Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 At 21 u dont know jack about love? Thats b.s Is there really much of a difference between a 21 yr old and a 27yr old? About six years, according to my calculations.
nessaaa Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 About six years, according to my calculations. Haw haw haw. U know what i mean! Hes acting like 21 is 15.
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