iamjohndoe Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Me and my girlfriend have been together for since september 2011 - a year and 3 months pretty much. She loves me very much and wants to see me everyday and to be honest I love her too but she annoys the hell out of me. We have had 1 or 2 short term break ups in the past but I just cannot seem to resist when she calls me and for the 1st week I'm all happy but after that week I just can't stand being with her. Maybe I'm over exaggerating a little there but I'm just not really all that happy when I'm around her. The problem is that she hasn't done anything wrong. I want to end it with her but I just can't bring myself to do it because she would never mean to do any harm and I cant justify breaking up with her to her as being annoying. I feel like a real ass. Should I break up with her? How should I break up with her? It's driving me insane and I need help.
WhatYouWantToHear Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Should I break up with her? Yes. Now here's the even worse news--you just described every chick ever. I'm guessing since you don't know this already you are young--so go out and find this out for yourself. Don't worry, in 10 years, you will still be able to find a nice, attractive girl, who annoys you to settle down with.
TopCat22 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Here's an outlandish suggestion: why not try talking to her? Why throw it away without trying to fix the problem. She can work on being less clingy and you can work on being more attentive. Otherwise you might just get your wish and get all that time alone you wanted... 1
fixing Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 If you love her, than mate, id tread very carefully. As soon as you mention breaking up, those words cant be undone, ever. And you may just find once she is gone that you have made a HUGE mistake. Like Topcat says, talk to her first.
na49 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I'm willing to bet that once you break up with her, she's going to move on from you quicker than you move on from her. You'll want her back, but she won't want you. I'd suggest taking TopCat's advice. Talk to her! This is a problem with so many people's relationships nowadays. People don't talk about their problems anymore, they bottle everything up until it explodes and someone gets really hurt. Do you love this person? Don't you want your relationship with this person to work? If you don't, then just dump her. Don't lead her on. She'll feel worse.
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