itsmyfault Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I am having one of those days where I'm reliving the break up in my head. How distraught she was and how she begged me not to leave her. Even now It makes me feel sh*t, I never liked hurting her. It's been nearly 6 months since we split, Wow it really doesn't feel that long. I'd say I'm not "in love" with her any more, but as she was my first everything I know I'll never forget her. It's all well and good for each of us to say don't think about the "what if's" but we all do it. Like I say it's just a one off thought though. Haven't had one for weeks. I've certainly found out over the last 6 months that my emotions do exist, before now I'd genuinely never "felt" anything, I think that was part of my problem.
Leegh Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 It has taken me up to three years to get fully over a serious relationship, but once I do I have no interest in keeping in touch with them anymore. A lot of my old boyfriends I "loved" but didn't really like, as some of them were jerks. Six months is not an extremely long time after a break-up, but it sounds as if you are doing well. It is normal to think back though, and wonder if things had been different.
LostOne1 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I am having one of those days where I'm reliving the break up in my head. How distraught she was and how she begged me not to leave her. Even now It makes me feel sh*t, I never liked hurting her. It's been nearly 6 months since we split, Wow it really doesn't feel that long. I'd say I'm not "in love" with her any more, but as she was my first everything I know I'll never forget her. It's all well and good for each of us to say don't think about the "what if's" but we all do it. Like I say it's just a one off thought though. Haven't had one for weeks. I've certainly found out over the last 6 months that my emotions do exist, before now I'd genuinely never "felt" anything, I think that was part of my problem. I'm assuming you were the dumper? I was wondering if the dumpers felt anything. It's been 6 months BU and 2 months NC and I crashed into my ex last day after 6 months of not seeing her. I don't know if she felt anything, but she seemed a bit shocked to see me there at her school. I as the dumpee just wanted her to feel everything too I suppose like you are.. She just threw me away and she never once even talked about anything. I suppose it's good to know dumpers also feel something too. And yes begging didn't work, but I wish my ex would feel the pain she put me through too. It wasn't just her hurting only.
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