lolo83 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I met a guy online and couldn't believe my luck. He's a catch ( I am also) and we get along great. 6 weeks on we get into a chat about where we're at, which he initiated...... He said; he likes spending time with me, he likes talking to me and the intimate stuff is great. Then he said that one thing is 'bugging' him...... He thinks his feelings are heading towards friendship rather than love! I immediately ended it. I figured i'm not getting any younger if it's not working out I need to move on. He was surprised by my response and expected me to say it doesn't matter because it's early days. We both agree that we had this chat too early and he wants to carry on seeing me to give it more time. But it's out there now! Is there any moving forward for us?
Million.to.1 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Why don't you just hang out as friends for a while then instead of forcing intimacy? If you continue to become attached it's only going to be harder if he pulls this out again down the line.... To be honest... I don't think a guy saying that is good sign at all. Sorry to say. 1
Author lolo83 Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 No, me neither......... What a shame
FitChick Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You can be friends but continue to date others. Who knows, he may discover that he wants you more than he originally thought. Sounds like the kind of guy who doesn't like smooth sailing in a relationship, confusing drama with love.
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