MissLY Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I was just curious and wanted to ask: if a guy and girl were dating for a few months and he either gets bored, gets in a fight with the girl he's dating, loses interest or gets distracted by another girl....does he always end up coming back around to the girl he was dating before? If so, why? Is it because men date other girls and find that they have no connection with them so they came back around? Or do men come back around because it's an ego boost? Just curious about how the male mind works...
Eddie Edirol Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 They leave you because they dont like your personality. They come back around when they just want sex. 4
MrCastle Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I suppose some guys come back around for the sex, but for me, if I leave you for some reason, it's because you've wronged me in some way, and if you've wronged me in some way, that's it. There is no working things out, patching things up, reconciling, nothing. If you've wronged me, I find you to be genuinely repulsive. I don't interact with those I find repulsive. 1
gaius Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Feels good to be around a woman you know will have sex with you. I would imagine guys come back around for a variety of different reasons, depending on the circumstance. Perhaps they realized the grass really wasn't greener (Prince William), they're just horny and you're the best option, they're lonely, or they need that ego boost of interacting with a woman they know they can get into bed after a ego busting experience.
MrCastle Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Feels good to be around a woman you know will have sex with you. I would imagine guys come back around for a variety of different reasons, depending on the circumstance. Perhaps they realized the grass really wasn't greener (Prince William), they're just horny and you're the best option, they're lonely, or they need that ego boost of interacting with a woman they know they can get into bed after a ego busting experience. You make it sound so romantic 2
phineas Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I suppose some guys come back around for the sex, but for me, if I leave you for some reason, it's because you've wronged me in some way, and if you've wronged me in some way, that's it. There is no working things out, patching things up, reconciling, nothing. If you've wronged me, I find you to be genuinely repulsive. I don't interact with those I find repulsive. Pretty much this. Different men leave for different reason's and come back. If he's a player it's just sex. If you jerked him around, played games, disrespected him in some way & didn't apologize why would he come back? If enough time has passed & he liked you & your transgression wasn't that serious he might come back to give you a 2nd chance to show you can be respectful to him. But you would probably need to make some kind of contact with him first.
truth_seeker Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 If you jerked him around, played games, disrespected him in some way & didn't apologize why would he come back? If enough time has passed & he liked you & your transgression wasn't that serious he might come back to give you a 2nd chance to show you can be respectful to him. But you would probably need to make some kind of contact with him first. If a woman plays games and takes it too far, the man is most likely gone forever. There are some things a guy can't get past. The only way a guy would come back is if the woman reached out to the guy and offered up a really good explanation, ie convincing excuse, and an apology. If he still liked her, she might get a second chance.
sillyanswer Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I was just curious and wanted to ask: if a guy and girl were dating for a few months and he either gets bored, gets in a fight with the girl he's dating, loses interest or gets distracted by another girl....does he always end up coming back around to the girl he was dating before? If so, why? If the sex was good. Or, at least, available.
carhill Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I was just curious and wanted to ask: if a guy and girl were dating for a few months and he either gets bored, gets in a fight with the girl he's dating, loses interest or gets distracted by another girl....does he always end up coming back around to the girl he was dating before? Every man is different. Personally, once I'm done with a lady, or she's done with me, done is done. I've only re-visited one romantic dynamic in my life, out of dozens, and that was only after a generation and because it wasn't completely 'done'. I had unfinished business and so apparently did she. We finished that and life went on. Hence, if one prefers a man who 'comes back around', it would pay to choose/date/be interested in/ be in relationships with those types of men. If other, other.
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