Author youngnlove89 Posted May 8, 2013 Author Posted May 8, 2013 I honestly don't think this helps at all. You NEED to face the pain in order to move on. Falsely masking it is like putting a bandaid on a severed limb. It serves quite literally no purpose whatsoever. Hiding pain only allows it to pop up at unexpected times or in unexpected places. YnL didn't you say you started crying at the bar out of no where? This is what's going to happen if you run from it. I did that months ago. I'm not trying to hide the pain, it is simply a feeling I feel. I can't control it. I don't know how to. I tried crying, turned on a sad song, thought about the good times, I couldn't cry. I was just angry. Tired of it all. Done with him.
J_L_C Posted May 23, 2013 Posted May 23, 2013 It took me over 1 1/2 years to get over my ex. Don't rush anything only time will heal. Oh man...it's been 10 months since my ex and I broke up and I am still messed up. I can't EVER see getting past it.
Author youngnlove89 Posted May 23, 2013 Author Posted May 23, 2013 Sadly, we have no control over how long it takes. Even if we fight every day to move on, it just is.
Author youngnlove89 Posted July 19, 2013 Author Posted July 19, 2013 *bump* We are all in this together. We can do it! This pain too shall pass.
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