Necromancer Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You folks here make it seem that you have to be James Bond himself to get average women. "You have to be in touch with your inner self, confident, funny, charming and bold". To what?. Get a date with a woman who mostly has half of the qualities you have?. Give me a break. Women don't need to improve, but u have too because you are a male.
Samilia Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You folks here make it seem that you have to be James Bond himself to get average women. "You have to be in touch with your inner self, confident, funny, charming and bold". To what?. Get a date with a woman who mostly has half of the qualities you have?. Give me a break. Women don't need to improve, but u have too because you are male. I personally think I have to improve to get a decent date. I could go out with my hair in a puff and no make up, wearing saggy jeans... I probably could still get laid if I wanted to, but give me a break, I wouldn't get a decent date
Author Necromancer Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 I personally think I have to improve to get a decent date. I could go out with my hair in a puff and no make up, wearing saggy jeans... I probably could still get laid if I wanted to, but give me a break, I wouldn't get a decent date I work out 5x a week, have nice clothes and take care of myself. Common.... Unless your a bumm then these things are in check.
todreaminblue Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You folks here make it seem that you have to be James Bond himself to get average women. "You have to be in touch with your inner self, confident, funny, charming and bold". To what?. Get a date with a woman who mostly has half of the qualities you have?. Give me a break. Women don't need to improve, but u have too because you are a male. Everybody has to learn and grow throughout their life, that is self improvement....you dont do it for other people you do it for yourself.its all about self...and the side effect of that is when you improve yrou outlook person or phsyciality you naturally attract attention...you dotn even have to try.......and that goes for both sexes its isnt inherent in one...people who start to improve themselves are magnets for other people to watch......and want to be with....its a snowball...oen thing that is highly attractive i feel ...is compassion for others.....and also the ability to not blame others for your life or love situation but to take the knocks and keep fighting..taking responsibility for where you stand int eh world is highly attractive......and that is a daily thing......its all self enhancement...just dont add a nose job and you are set...cheers...deb
Samilia Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I work out 5x a week, have nice clothes and take care of myself. Common.... Unless your a bumm then these things are in check. Then why would you want to improve? Unless your personality sucks, I don't see what's wrong.
ScienceGal Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 this has been discussed time immemorial. Women want to date "up". Only the men at the top get the most dates... Being an "average" guy isn't enough anymore because of hypergamy. bs........ 5
xxoo Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 If you don't think the women are worth the effort, why bother? If you do think they are worth the effort, why complain? 13
Mrlonelyone Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I think you need to improve your own self image. If you don't think that you are good enough to date why would anyone else? The trick is you have to think that about yourself before you get anyone else to go on a date with you. You even need to feel that when someone rejects you. That they are missing out on being with you. 1
TheZebra Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Then why would you want to improve? Unless your personality sucks, I don't see what's wrong. Read more of his posts. Your guess about his personality is not far off 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Hey op...turn gay. Since only men are worthy of your affections. 6
Casablanca Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You folks here make it seem that you have to be James Bond himself to get average women. Not sure what forums you're reading 2
Mme. Chaucer Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You don't have to improve yourself as long as you feel happy with where you are, and the success you're having exactly as you are today. You're a teenager, right? I hope, for your sake, that you don't seriously feel like you wouldn't benefit a lot from self-improvement. Forget about the "average girls" part. 1
Necris Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 If you don't think the women are worth the effort, why bother? If you do think they are worth the effort, why complain? But he does have a point if he wants an average plain girl who isn't extraordinary, why should she expect him to be extraordinary? Now if he wants saints with model bodies well...., then some improvement maybe in order. 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I think the one good thing we can get out of this thread is that we know who is going to remain single for the remainder of their lives and will never produce offspring. 2
todreaminblue Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Not sure what forums you're reading seconded definitely no james bonds on these forums 1
ThaWholigan Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 This reality that you guys live in sure is bleak. No wonder you guys complain. Why not come and be delusional and happy like me? You might actually get some pussy out of it. You might even get an LTR or two! I'm working on that one ..... You can pursue interests and improve yourself in all aspects FREELY, without worrying about trying to attract an "average girl who doesn't match up to my spectacular awesomeness :mad:". You can go and be the kind of person you want and be confident about it because you don't care. You're delusional and happy! Everything is great in your world! My delusion makes me feel great! Sure, life sucks. But I don't care. I know very well it can suck sometimes. I just squeeze and extract every last drop of happiness and greatness out of it, otherwise I'd probably be on here being a whiny pussy - or doing that somewhere else. Nevertheless, my "delusion" saves me! It's also interesting how much I delude myself into thinking "Hey, there's a lot of great women out there!" Rather than brooding like a sh*tty cartoon villain lamenting the curse of hypergamy, or some other BS that one imagines is getting in your way of getting laid, damnit! Oh curse you, Looks, Money and Status ! If only I could attain all 3 of you in my life......oh wait, I can just delude myself into thinking that I CAN!! Great! Everything is fantastic again. And all of you women out there? Come and be delusional too! You can be happy like me! You can improve your lives, fulfill your goals, and not take life too seriously. There might be some fantastic guy round the corner, just like there are fantastic girls waiting for us delusional guys to pull our act together and be the most fantastic delusional men we can be! Come and join me. F*ck the red and blue pill. This is the best pill you will ever take. Let the delusion take control - you'll be f*cking girls in no time! I smoked way too much weed tonight ........... 2
jcrew11 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You folks here make it seem that you have to be James Bond himself to get average women. "You have to be in touch with your inner self, confident, funny, charming and bold". To what?. Get a date with a woman who mostly has half of the qualities you have?. Give me a break. Women don't need to improve, but u have too because you are a male. Its fairly easy to be confident - which also leads to being charming. What is preventing you from being confident? Are you being hurt by other people and seeking their validation, or are you just the unhappy loner. Maybe you just aren't cut out to be an alpha male like "James Bond or Brad Pitt." Maybe you are also hitting on the wrong women, not creating attraction, and just over-reaching. I'm not saying you should just go after ugly women and fat women, but there are "average women who seek out average guys." Some women have also been burned by alpha players and want a loyal non-social guy. One quality that men is "masculinity" and "strength." Women are "feminine" and one thing that women expect of men that they respect is a man's "inner strength." You may be the weak, wimpy male. If that's the case, then go after the depressed goth chicks.
Lani Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Am I the only one who thinks this is ridiculous? It goes back to the principal that you get what you give.. Pretty simple really. If you want a smokin' hot chick, with an incredible body, don't expect to be sitting around eating hamburgers and have a chance with her. If you want the girl who has the kindest heart you've ever known, then you need to have a pretty good one yourself. Be the person you want to find.
xxoo Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 But he does have a point if he wants an average plain girl who isn't extraordinary, why should she expect him to be extraordinary? Now if he wants saints with model bodies well...., then some improvement maybe in order. He has no point. All those "average girls" are extraordinary to someone. But not to him, so why does he bother? Someone else will put in the effort, and get the girl....because he thinks she's worth it.
Els Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 So.... "be in touch with your inner self, confident, funny, charming and bold" is the equivalent of "you have to be James Bond to get a girl"? I guess "be at a healthy weight and dress girly" is the equivalent of "you have to be Megan Fox to get a guy", too. Who would have thought that non-celebrities were all insecure, boring, awkward and scared little dudes?
Author Necromancer Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 So.... "be in touch with your inner self, confident, funny, charming and bold" is the equivalent of "you have to be James Bond to get a girl"? I guess "be at a healthy weight and dress girly" is the equivalent of "you have to be Megan Fox to get a guy", too. Who would have thought that non-celebrities were all insecure, boring, awkward and scared little dudes? Women want it all while they have nothing to offer more than a vagina, hypergamy in action. You think that every man who has seen the light(hypergamy) is some basement dwelling freak. Does the truth hurt this much?.
Samilia Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I think the one good thing we can get out of this thread is that we know who is going to remain single for the remainder of their lives and will never produce offspring. Have you been to Walmart lately? 1
Els Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Women want it all while they have nothing to offer more than a vagina, hypergamy in action. You think that every man who has seen the light(hypergamy) is some basement dwelling freak. Does the truth hurt this much?. Are you going to respond to my point or are you just going to repeat your OP? The 'truth' doesn't 'hurt' anybody but yourself, because we aren't the ones who are constantly moping around on a forum about how life sucks and how we're doomed to spend life #foreveralone. If you think being funny, charming, and confident is solely the territory of celebrities, you have a lot of work to do, my friend. Also, your logic is extremely interesting. If 'women' were to want 'everything' but provide 'nothing', the vast majority of women would have zero chance at an exclusive relationship (because the few guys whom they're interested in wouldn't be interested in them) and it should be them complaining. Unfortunately, the only person I see who's perpetually single not out of choice here, is you. What does that say about what you want and what you can provide? Wait, let me guess, you're just going to repeat your OP again, aren't you?
Author Necromancer Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 Are you going to respond to my point or are you just going to repeat your OP? The 'truth' doesn't 'hurt' anybody but yourself, because we aren't the ones who are constantly moping around on a forum about how life sucks and how we're doomed to spend life #foreveralone. If you think being funny, charming, and confident is solely the territory of celebrities, you have a lot of work to do, my friend. Also, your logic is extremely interesting. If 'women' were to want 'everything' but provide 'nothing', the vast majority of women would have zero chance at an exclusive relationship (because the few guys whom they're interested in wouldn't be interested in them) and it should be them complaining. Unfortunately, the only person I see who's perpetually single not out of choice here, is you. What does that say about what you want and what you can provide? Wait, let me guess, you're just going to repeat your OP again, aren't you? There are tons of skinny men with fat women, being a man requires much more social skills than being a woman pretty obvious. The only thing women provide is vagina and babies. Most women don't have really good personalities. That's how they want it all(charming,confident men) while they are (insecure, unfunny themselves). LOL, there are billions of threads here about men not wanting to commit.
Els Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Well, if the only things women provide are 'vagina' and 'babies', what are you complaining about, especially if you don't want babies? You don't need a woman. Go hire a prostitute! You can be as insecure and boring as you like and still get 'vagina', as long as you pay up and follow the rules. Win-win, no? 1
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