Casablanca Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 I think this is a little harsh, but on balance you're doing the guy a tremendous service by giving him constructive criticism. A million times better than just disappearing, or even giving a general reason like "we're not right for each other." Attagirl. Harsh, but she had to be honest with him or he would have never learned.
outsidethebox Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 Did you read everything? She didn't even get a chance to reply most of the time. I call a girl, if she doesnt answer, I leave a voicemail and she won't hear from me until she calls or texts me back. She knows her response is requested. yes, I read everything. So busy over the course of two days she can't send a text to say she's busy? That's pretty busy. I'm impressed. Suffice to say these two aren't compatible.
Casablanca Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 yes, I read everything. So busy over the course of two days she can't send a text to say she's busy? That's pretty busy. I'm impressed. Suffice to say these two aren't compatible. I teach, and I cant even send a text to say I'm busy until the end of the day, there isnt always time to do that. Some work places are very strict about texting on the job. Or sometimes people don't hear it.
outsidethebox Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 One of her busy times was preparing to interview for a job on the next day. The first day I don't recall what all she was doing but it's a long day. Yes, texting is limited at a lot of work sites (like mine) but I would manage at lunch to text someone I just gave a phone number that I'm busy and this is better handled by email later. Ignoring over two days and complaining the whole time here (making posts while she's so crazy busy, in other words) versus sending a text saying email and I'll get back to you. This isn't an issue of which is more time consuming.
TheZebra Posted January 13, 2013 Posted January 13, 2013 One of her busy times was preparing to interview for a job on the next day. The first day I don't recall what all she was doing but it's a long day. Yes, texting is limited at a lot of work sites (like mine) but I would manage at lunch to text someone I just gave a phone number that I'm busy and this is better handled by email later. Ignoring over two days and complaining the whole time here (making posts while she's so crazy busy, in other words) versus sending a text saying email and I'll get back to you. This isn't an issue of which is more time consuming. The problem is not about how busy she was or wasn't. The point was that the guy sent a text, for whatever reason she didn't reply right away, and he kept on texting and calling. If I call/text a guy and he doesn't respond, I wait until he responds to me. I don't keep on trying to contact him. That's annoying and clingy. 1
outsidethebox Posted January 14, 2013 Posted January 14, 2013 There's a line between trying and figuring out she is rude. Yes, he should have figured out she was rude and thrown her number away. It wasn't doing him any good anyway.
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