10 commandments of dating for men

January 10, 2013

Right, but earlier you kept saying "we" when referring to who you'd keep on the list.

I just kept saying I when put the list up. If I say we I'm talking about people who PM me, post in this thread, other people with my mindset all around the country and world that type of thing. (and the secret tribunal you shouldn't ask about)

January 10, 2013

Whatever country Nightsky is originally from...I suggest all women who don't feel like being barefoot, pregnant and in the kitchen that you avoid it like its Somalia.

January 10, 2013

Doesn't sound to safe...

I wonder why... Surely it's because of all the women living there.

January 10, 2013

I wonder why... Surely it's because of all the women living there.

London's relatively safe depending on where you're staying. Central is always busy so best to be in and around there. Some places in North or West London is good too.

January 11, 2013

I don't need her to admit anything I already know her game.

I have a feeling you don't. It's okay with me if you don't date feminists, but we can be just as nice, sexy, loving, caring and nurturing as anybody else. It depends upon the temperament of the feminist. The thing is that we don't feel constrained to be those things, or not to be whatever we feel like we really ARE, because of our chromosomes.

The men I have had in my life weren't worried about my feminism. For the most part they considered themselves feminists. Strong men.

January 11, 2013

The kind of women who made those quotes are misandrists who hide behind feminism and not real feminists themselves. They just use feminism as an excuse to hate half the population.

January 11, 2013

Very true! Even Gloria Steinem got married and she was the one who came up with the "fish needs a bicycle" nonsense.

I was raging feminist before I met my husband. I swore I would never cook or clean for a man, marry or take a man's last name. These beliefs came from growing up in a sexist home and being manipulated by older men. That was when I was 23.

Fast forward seven years and I have married a wonderful man. I would do anything for him because my husband treats me like a princess. I was proud to take his name and become a part of his family. My husband gently helped me with my trust issues.

We all need each other. Men who say that they don't need women are selfish and immature.

I was pretty much the male version of this after my first marriage ended but I still met a great woman who I don't mind treating like a queen because she treats me like a king.

January 11, 2013

I will off the top of my head make 10 rules to go by when dating if you are a man. These rules will be in no particular order.

10.) Don't date feminists. This means don't date a woman who truelly buys into complete equality between men and women. As in a woman who thinks their is no difference between boys and girls other than social constructs made up by the patriarchy. Also be inclined toward women who support the patriarchy. I'm not saying don't date a woman who believes in the right to vote or a right to respect... I'm saying stay away from feminists.

9.) Don't date a nag. It may seem cute in the begining but it will get old quick. Do not date a woman who is going to try to change you in any way. I'm not talking about a girl who says don't fart near me or something like that. More the woman who just talks ****ty about the way you eat or your friends or things like that. Seems obvious but watch out for this.

8.) Don't date a girl who enjoys porn. Seems fun right a girl who looks at porn. Wrong stay away from this kind of girl. Probably a feminist but its got its own category.

7.) Don't date a woman who wants her men to shave. This is kind of the nag... but specifically you want to be able to be hairy on your back, face, where ever you want. Oh and if you want to wax and shave WHY?

6.) This seems obvious but date a girl who wants to please her man. This includes sex! This means she wants to give it to you regularly as a priority. Understands men need it regularly and not to with hold it.

5.) Date a girl you find sexy. Seems obvious but some people need to hear this.

4.) Date a girl you find cute. I'll add this separate from sexy. Sexy meaning you want to have sex with her. Cute meaning you find the way she acts and is to be charming. As a man you know you can find a total bitch sexy and want to spank her and fck her and all that. It doesn't mean you find her cute... as in charming. If you date her you need to find her cute as well as sexy.

3.) Really all this stuff is so obvious I feel like doctor Phil here... I guess this won't stop people from arguing with me like they do with him though but... HUMOR... This doesn't mean she has to be funny but that can be good too. But you want to share a sense of humor. Find the same things funny. Most importantly she needs to find you funny! Or atleast act that way lol. Obviously man humor won't always be funny to women but when you want to make her laugh or when you want to share a laugh you need to be able too.

2)Trust. This has to be some one you feel you can build trust with. You know hold your secrets... not cheat on you at a minimum type of thing.

1) In shape. She should be in some kind of shape. I mean I don't need to date an athlete... but I'm not going to date some fat chick. I put this separate from sexy for reasons that should be obvious. I think a fat chick can be pretty... but I want some one who respects their body to at least the minimal degree of not being fat. Also for the most part I wouldn't be attracted to some one who is fat.

11 mentality stable

12 can hold a job

13 emotionally stable

January 11, 2013

I like clean shaven men because it looks better to me and doesn't feel so rough and prickly on my face. What is so terrible about that? If a woman should please her man, why can't the man please her too? It goes both ways because both men and women should benefit in a relationship.

As for liking porn, I certainly don't believe that a woman who enjoys porn makes a bad partner. Women are allowed to have sex drives and be turned on by porn, It is called being human.

January 11, 2013

London's relatively safe depending on where you're staying. Central is always busy so best to be in and around there. Some places in North or West London is good too.

Haha I know, I never had anything bad happened to me there, even when staying in the not so safe areas returning on my own from gigs or clubs late at night/early morning.

Europe is pretty safe imo, I've never been scared in any of the big cities here and I walk around at night a lot. Doesn't change the fact that everywhere in the world things like travelling, backpacking or hitchhiking are much more dangerouss for women than men and I hate that. Oh well. I'm sure Nightsky would advise me to just stay at home while he wanders around Singapore looking for some thin sexy AND cute Asian lady that will be in awe of his striking masculine superiority.

January 11, 2013

Haha I know, I never had anything bad happened to me there, even when staying in the not so safe areas returning on my own from gigs or clubs late at night/early morning.

Europe is pretty safe imo, I've never been scared in any of the big cities here and I walk around at night a lot. Doesn't change the fact that everywhere in the world things like travelling, backpacking or hitchhiking are much more dangerouss for women than men and I hate that. Oh well. I'm sure Nightsky would advise me to just stay at home while he wanders around Singapore looking for some thin sexy AND cute Asian lady that will be in awe of his striking masculine superiority.

Yeah, it's safe depending on the area. I live in a not-so-safe area of London - I know where the places are that are less likely to be troublesome fortunately. It also helps that I don't naturally attract trouble.

January 11, 2013

I wonder if the men who are so into being the head of the household, main providers, etc are totally ok with heavy alimony payments for their unskilled ex wives (work wise) should they fall in love with their secretaries and demand a divorce? Further, I hope the child support they give is enough that she can still stay home with kids assuming a grandmother isn't available. After all, traditional 'real men' don't renege on the deals they make and keep their promises. So if you agree to be the wallet, I hope you don't think it's cool to break that promise and close that bank account should you decide to trade your wife in for a younger model.

Oh wait? You want to dip your stick elsewhere, but now your poor destitute wife should work overtime at McDonald's while your kids raise themselves in front of the tv? Meanwhile, you're driving a porshe and taking your little chippy to Europe twice a year?

If this is the definition of a 'real man,' they have no one to blame but themselves for the rise of feminism.

On that note, I'm just going to keep on earning my hefty salary and progressing in my career so my future children will be provided for no matter what.

Guess that makes me a feminist.

Personally I think people like the OP prefer little air heads living in the kitchen and scrubbing poo stains out of their tighty whiteys because they know deep down in their hearts they could never out earn, out sex, or out run the mother-fing sh-t out of household than a woman like me. Also, it hurts their precious masculinity when they realize they're nowhere near as bright.

No biggie. Like is SUPPOSED to attract like. So redneck patriarchs SHOULD be with empty boring women who are skilled in the 'art' of vacuuming.

Being fairly intelligent myself, I require a brilliant mate. Lucky for me, most of the brilliant men I've dated (including the one I am about to marry) love and adore a woman who can keep up with them intellectually... While at the same time giving them toe curling bjs.

As far as I'm concerned, both of us are exactly where we should be. (outside of the fact that OP is single and I'm not. But, I'm sure he'll meet his perfect 17 year old future broodmare soon enough. I bet she CANT WAIT to clean up the p-ss on his bathroom floor and then send him off to work at his ever so important middle management job like a true alpha.)

Edited January 11, 2013 by Janesays

January 11, 2013

Oh and if you want to wax and shave WHY?

Because the hair hides the definition of the muscle that I worked harder than you can imagine to achieve.

Edited January 11, 2013 by Prada Class

January 11, 2013

Nightsky, for a guy you really argue like a drama queen... you should read your own posts and *probably* you will see a pattern of complaining and whining about everything that is not your "view"....just like a 16 year old...

BTW you havent answer my honest question:

Care to enlighten me about how your relationships have shown you, your 10 REVISED commandments?

January 11, 2013

Nightsky, for a guy you really argue like a drama queen... you should read your own posts and *probably* you will see a pattern of complaining and whining about everything that is not your "view"....just like a 16 year old...

BTW you havent answer my honest question:

Care to enlighten me about how your relationships have shown you, your 10 REVISED commandments?

You sound like a little girl. The fact that to you the things I've said sound like a drama queen shows what a proud mangina you are.

I'm not here to explain my personal life to you. That's personal, but feel free to talk about yours if you want to give me a good laugh.

January 11, 2013

OP, I'm 100% certain I'm smarter than you and I don't say that to insult you or be coy. I say that because not many people in this country are smarter than me and the odds that I find one on an internet forum about relationships are slim to none. I hav e many, many, many short comings in life and I'm not afraid to admit to them or face them, but I AM vastly superior in the brains department.

Does that mean I'm right in this thread? Not necessarily. But it's really hard for me to even address your arguments with a straight face when you make silly claims like that one.

January 11, 2013

OP, I'm 100% certain I'm smarter than you and I don't say that to insult you or be coy. I say that because not many people in this country are smarter than me and the odds that I find one on an internet forum about relationships are slim to none. I hav e many, many, many short comings in life and I'm not afraid to admit to them or face them, but I AM vastly superior in the brains department.

Let me follow that mental math, you're 100% sure you're smarter than some one you have literally close to no knowledge of and you base this on some imaginary self proclaimed fact that you are one of the smartest in the country there for it is 100% likely you are smarter than me... wouldn't that just make it likely you were smarter than me. Also isn't that sort of insulting to every one who posts here. Hmmm. The ego on you haha.

You don't come off as intelligent at all in my eyes. Everything you've written seems petty and personal instead of attacking my points. That shows a real lack of logic. Also even if you are some how a great scientist or what ever which I doubt, that still leaves the fact that some of the smartest people I've known have also been some of the stupidest especially when it comes to areas of the heart. All your ego actually just point to a very immature girl throwing a temper tantrum. Very dramatic, very unattractive.

Does that mean I'm right in this thread? Not necessarily. But it's really hard for me to even address your arguments with a straight face when you make silly claims like that one.

That is the feminist way isn't? Make some bold indoctrinated claims with nothing to back them up. You truly are a moral elitist with nothing resembling substance.

Edited January 11, 2013 by Nightsky

January 11, 2013

feminist

You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.

January 11, 2013

Everything you've written seems petty and personal instead of attacking my points. That shows a real lack of logic.

Hmmm....

Also even if you are some how a great scientist or what ever which I doubt, that still leaves the fact that some of the smartest people I've known have also been some of the stupidest especially when it comes to areas of the heart. All your ego actually just point to a very immature girl throwing a temper tantrum. Very dramatic, very unattractive.

January 11, 2013

Doubt what you will, but its true.

And it would be silly for anyone on this forum to be insulted considering that I am an abnormality. That doesn't make them stupid (in fact, I strongly suspect that MOST people here are smarter than you.) Just means I doubt most people would have any problem in the world admitting that someone who had to have special teachers flown in to work with her when she was FOUR because none of her current teachers were considered intelligent enough to work with her is LIKELY smarter than them.

I am an Ethologist and am generally considered vastly overqualified for my job. Ethology isn't considered one of the more difficult sciences, but I do it because I love it. I'm not sure what you do for a living, but assuming you make middle management salary, tossing it all to maintain a single paper route would be similar to me choosing my current field of research.

With that said, I've never particularly hid who or what I am. If you are even slighly competent with Google, you are free to read my past posts and use the facts gleaned there to track me down yourself if you need proof.

With that said, your thread is silly and your debating skills are atrocious. Arguing with you is like arguing with a gorillia who keeps insisting via sign language that a kitten is actually his baby.

Eh, but it's still fun to watch. *shrug.

Edited January 11, 2013 by Janesays

January 11, 2013

And it would be silly for anyone on this forum to be insulted considering that I am an abnormality. That doesn't make them stupid (in fact, I strongly suspect that MOST people here are smarter than you.) Just means I doubt most people would have any problem in the world admitting that someone who had to have special teachers flown in to work with her when she was FOUR because none of her current teachers were considered intelligent enough to work with her is LIKELY smarter than them.

Yeah I think most people would be annoyed by some one with your "I'm smarter" than you attitude.

I mean you having to have teachers flown in to teach you says more about your parents than you. Only so much nurture can do obviously because it seems in your nature to be completely tactless and argue ridiculous points. Thank you for the story though it gave me a good chuckle.

I am an Ethologist and am generally considered vastly overqualified for my job. Ethology isn't considered one of the more difficult sciences' date=' but I do it because I love it. I'm not sure what you do for a living, but assuming you make middle management salary, tossing it all to maintain a single paper route would be similar to me choosing my current field of research.[/quote']

Yes you have no idea what I do or don't. The fact that you try to say "you work middle management that mean's your stupider than me" is really silly. Are you a Professor? Do you have your useless research funded by public money like by some university. hmmm? Yeah you really are very unproductive, and have a very undeserved sense of accomplishment. Like I said scientists aren't known for their social intelligence so why you find the need to come at me with such superiority only shows how unconfident you really are.

With that said, I've never particularly hid who or what I am. If you are even slighly competent with Google, you are free to read my past posts and use the facts gleaned there to track me down yourself if you need proof.

With that said, your thread is silly and your debating skills are atrocious. Arguing with you is like arguing with a gorillia who keeps insisting via sign language that a kitten is actually his baby.

Eh, but it's still fun to watch. *shrug.

You're fun to watch. Alas I will not be tracking you down with google because I have no interest in staring down the annoying ranting moron on the other end of the computer screen. I could care less if you're a professor or discovered a new behavior in chimps or what ever. You know jack sht about humans especially this one.

January 11, 2013

Just a quick clarification, my parents had nothing to do my education. The special teachers were the decision of the state. Eventually they just gave up and let me skip grades. If anything, my parents tried to slow me down academically and only allowed me to skip two. (They were worried about my size difference. I was a small girl with kids my own age, let alone with kids 3 years older.)

With that said, I don't see anything wrong in the world with admitting you excel in a certain area. Would I think it egotistical for a super model to admit she's prettier than most women? Or a professional body builder to say he's stronger than most men? Or an Olympic gold medalist to admit he is better at a particular sport? Of course not. Don't be silly.

What's silly is looking an Olympic gold medalist in the eye and saying you could probably beat him in a foot race. Tell me, whose got the big ego now?

January 11, 2013

Just a quick clarification, my parents had nothing to do my education. The special teachers were the decision of the state. Eventually they just gave up and let me skip grades. If anything, my parents tried to slow me down academically and only allowed me to skip two. (They were worried about my size difference. I was a small girl with kids my own age, let alone with kids 3 years older.)

With that said, I don't see anything wrong in the world with admitting you excel in a certain area. Would I think it egotistical for a super model to admit she's prettier than most women? Or a professional body builder to say he's stronger than most men? Or an Olympic gold medalist to admit he is better at a particular sport? Of course not. Don't be silly.

What's silly is looking an Olympic gold medalist in the eye and saying you could probably beat him in a foot race. Tell me, whose got the big ego now?

Seriously, as I read through what you write I get the picture of a hamster wheel turning in your brain as you think. If I were to look you in the eye I'd see a very confused sad individual I suspect.

Thank you again for the good laughs.

January 11, 2013

So... you want a woman who's willing to be the housewife and do all those traditional things that you expect a woman to do, but you want all of that with a PRENUP??? Good luck with that, my friend.

Oh, wait, you kinda have to get past the stage of asking a girl out first, so good luck with THAT to begin with, I guess.

January 11, 2013

So lets see, Nighsky’s ideal woman is:

10. A woman who believes in the right to vote just as long as she doesn’t believe she is equal to men.

9. No nags! Except when it comes to farting..then it’s okay.

8. No to porn...at least for her. Men can enjoy porn though.

7. A woman that likes men that look like those dudes from Duck Dynasty...and and the nagging again..Farting is okay to nag about. Shaving and food isn’t.

6. Sex - A woman that does not have any needs other then to sexually please her man on command! She has the flu?That’s her problem! She needs to please her man.

5. Sex - a woman that is sexy so that you want to bang her.

4. Sex - a woman that is cute so that you want to bang her.

3. If she isn’t funny she at least MUST find you funny... so that you want to bang her.

2. Trust...except when I want to look at porn and will do so when she isn’t around but she isn’t allowed to!

1. Sex - Must be sexy or cute with in-shape body by my personal standards.... so that I want to bang her.

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