Don't Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Apparently last week she went into my facebook account because I got a notice from facebook saying that someone else tried to log in please change your password and i realized it was her then who else could be? Anyway today I tried her fbook password and it worked I was in which i know was a low move but she did it before me. We must be both kids. Anyway I saw this in a private group convo with her besties. I will change the names as A(my ex) and B(her bff) A: He changed his facebook password and I tried to enter to see what he was saying about me. Damn I shouldn't be trying to go on anyway. For the best. Like · · Unfollow Post · December 28, 2012 at 3:29pm Seen by everyone B: Didn't take him long, he must be smart. A lot smarter than X is haha December 28, 2012 at 3:30pm · Like A: hahaha yea well I checked like the day after we broke up and he had immediately asked the girl he used to like for relationship advice so I'm sure whatever he's been doing he really wanted to keep to himself December 28, 2012 at 3:31pm · Like A: I can let my imagination run wild and it'd probably all be true lol December 28, 2012 at 3:34pm · Like A: before he met me he had like 20 girls he was taking to each day so I'm sure it's back to that. December 28, 2012 at 3:34pm · Like A: talking December 28, 2012 at 3:34pm · Like B: It's so tempting when you know the passwords. It's probably is best that he changed it so now you can't December 28, 2012 at 3:35pm · Like B: Has he stopped talking to you? December 28, 2012 at 3:36pm · Like A: Yeah I didn't want to look but it was tempting. He stopped talking and he posted a DJ mix called new beginnings so hopefully he's doing better. December 28, 2012 at 3:39pm via mobile · Like A: I'm sure his friends have been supportive lol they get to party all the time now that I'm out. December 28, 2012 at 3:40pm via mobile · Like B: His friends probably are happy haha, they can do whatever they want cos he won't say anything. It's good though, if he's moving on and then you can too. We'll have a single party in the city for you December 28, 2012 at 3:42pm · Like A: Haha yes another cheers night like the last one. December 28, 2012 at 3:43pm via mobile · Like B: XXX already said she wants to hang out more and YYY too so I'm sure there is opportunity for many.... olo December 28, 2012 at 3:45pm · Like A: Whoop woop December 28, 2012 at 3:45pm via mobile · Any advice on this?
dreamingoftigers Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Yeah, stay out of each other's facebooks! Unless it's your best friend who left it open and you want to change their relationship status to "married to their own mother" or something like that. Jeez. Unhealthy! If it must be said.... "I know you tried to go into my fb. Stay out of it. Please do not contact me or violate my privacy in any way. And yes I KNOW it was you.
tinkerbash Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 okay so what you are both doing is morally wrong, If you arent coping with being on each others facebook can i suggest no contact for a while, unfriend her, change your password and your phone number and make sure there is no way to see what you are doing or who you are talking to, The conversation she is having with her buddies clearly shows she is into you and is curious to know what ypu are up to , maybe too curious to go to the extent of hacking your facebook. this is a huge invasion of privacy on both sides. if you dont want to be together move on if not instead of getting into each others profiles try talking to each other.
Chi townD Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 And kind of an immature move. However, that text conservation tells me that she hopes you're moving on and may be a little jealous that you're moving on. So, take her advice and move on.
Missing Him Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Everyone needs to relax. It's not a ridiculous evil It's natural to feel some compulsion when it comes to your ex. It's just important that you recognize that this isn't healthy for either of you and that you don't do it again. When my ex and I broke up, I had his Facebook password. I called him after the breakup and asked him to change it, because I knew there would be too much temptation for me and it would make it harder for me to move on. You just need to figure out a way to stop yourself from doing this again and to just move on for your own good.
Samilia Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 I can't help thinking.. change her password lol!
Author Don't Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 We both changed our passwords and we didn't even talk about it. At least I kinda know what is going on. I don't understand how come she talks about me to her friends. Is she proud of herself or something? Today I was stupid and tried to contact her on fbook. Despite my emotional message she was rational. I asked her if she wanted to meet she said just to exchange stuff? I said sure and I am tired of this no contact game. Her answer was Well no contact isn't a game, it's the normal protocol when a relationship ends. At least for a while as we heal. I said ok i respect that. Sucks but there is nothing much i can do other than letting her be. If she broke up with me why she would hack and talk abut it to her friends etc..? Don't get it. I guess I don't have to. It is just her ego.
Samilia Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Probably because you went NC, her ego was hurt. She's not gonna spill that kind of beans to the gf, she kept cool.
robaday Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 a bit of warning here - its possible to check your last 10 or so log ins on facebook now.....so if she gets suspicious then your ip will come up!! and then it just takes some digging around to find out location of log in.... i know this cause an ex used to hack my facebook. and i kicked her to the curb.
Simon Phoenix Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Everyone needs to relax. It's not a ridiculous evil It's natural to feel some compulsion when it comes to your ex. It's just important that you recognize that this isn't healthy for either of you and that you don't do it again. When my ex and I broke up, I had his Facebook password. I called him after the breakup and asked him to change it, because I knew there would be too much temptation for me and it would make it harder for me to move on. You just need to figure out a way to stop yourself from doing this again and to just move on for your own good. It's an invasion of privacy. It's messed up. I feel the reactions are just. You don't log on to someone else's Facebook. That's f--ked up.
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