LovedwayULie Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 I've meet this guy online, and as time goes by, we're getting closed, I've known him for few months now, and I to him also. We're comfortable with each other, and we could throw jokes at each other, he's so fun to talk to, and those kidding talks went to dirty talks.. Like we're responding in chat in a playful way. And there's so much to it...Errrrr So much for that. The PROBLEM is I'm getting, getting into him!! and He's notttt...well because he said he's married.. So I really don't know what to do, he still keep on teasing me, sending me mesages.. I don't know If should reply or not, of course I can't just ignore him. So please tell me what should I do???
veggirl Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Why can't you just ignore ? Tell you him don't feel comfortable with the flirty stuff considering he's married! Are you trying to get yourself involved as the Other Woman or something?!
Author LovedwayULie Posted January 7, 2013 Author Posted January 7, 2013 No. The problem is I don't really believe he's married. Who's really a responsible husband trying to sneak and cheat to his wife? I feel he does like me too, I just don't know more anything about him.
Maneater Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Instant trouble. It's funny how everyone's screen names seem to fit our dating issues. Me included Lieing from the start is very bad especially when it comes to his marital status whether he's married or even odder, lieing about not being married. If he's not really married but telling you he his, then he probably just wants sex.
veggirl Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 No. The problem is I don't really believe he's married. Who's really a responsible husband trying to sneak and cheat to his wife? I feel he does like me too, I just don't know more anything about him. Okay so why do you want to talk to a guy you suspect is a huge liar?
Author LovedwayULie Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 Okay so why do you want to talk to a guy you suspect is a huge liar? Not so a huge Liar veggirl. He has this personality I've never seen to any guy I've met, he made me laugh every day. I'm not asking financial help or anything from him. Just a day without chatting with him, is already NOT complete.
veggirl Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Not so a huge Liar veggirl. He has this personality I've never seen to any guy I've met, he made me laugh every day. I'm not asking financial help or anything from him. Just a day without chatting with him, is already NOT complete. Girl, lying about whether you are married or not IS a huge lie and you suspect he is lying about his marital status. He's obviously a charming...but douchey guy. Have you even met him in person?! Are you FB friends etc?
DC4 Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I'd put a halt to this ASAP. It's not unusual for an actual relationship to stem from online friendships. do you want to be in that situation?
Author LovedwayULie Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 He's obviously a charming...but douchey guy. Have you even met him in person?! Are you FB friends etc? No, I've never meet him in person, that's impossible. Yes we're friends in facebook but he is using a fake account, he told me so. Etc? I don't know his complete addres, I don't have his phone no. don't know his birthdate, if that's what you are asking. I just love talking to the guy, I do feel he's worth the time.
clia Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 You better call Nev from the Catfish TV show. Sounds like you've got a live one! So you feel like the following is worth your time? A guy who lied to you about being married. A guy you have never met in person. A guy who uses a fake Facebook account. A guy who hasn't given you his address. A guy who hasn't given you his phone number. Heck, you don't even know if he really is a guy! You could be talking to 400 pound Bertha from West Virginia for all you know. Please don't get invested in this. Find someone who lives in your city and talk to him. 2
veggirl Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 why does he use a fake FB account? are you just desperate for a man or something? not to sound rude but that's how it's sounding because you are accepting a bunch of BS from some guy who is OBVIOUSLY A LIAR and hiding things from you! why don't you find a man who lives locally and who gives you his REAL INFORMATION and you can meet in person? why can't you get this guys phone number and REAL fb account? cmon are you seriously this naive and gullible?
Author LovedwayULie Posted January 22, 2013 Author Posted January 22, 2013 why does he use a fake FB account? are you just desperate for a man or something? not to sound rude but that's how it's sounding because you are accepting a bunch of BS from some guy who is OBVIOUSLY A LIAR and hiding things from you! why don't you find a man who lives locally and who gives you his REAL INFORMATION and you can meet in person? why can't you get this guys phone number and REAL fb account? cmon are you seriously this naive and gullible? Veggirl thank you for replying to this thread. Obviously the situation I am in is pure virtual and fantasy. He's using a fake fb account, obviously to avoid trouble to his personal life. I am not desperate to be link to the guy, or chased or demands anything from him because it's all an online thing. So why do I need to ask his personal info when I'm not in the right position to do so? The only problem is I'm getting used to chat or talk to him online because I'm working at home. I do trust him despite of him not to be able to share his personal life with me. Aside from the REMINDER: He's married. We had a fun chat, then more than that and I know it's all wrong that's why I am here asking for some advice. Not to be judged.
Anela Posted January 22, 2013 Posted January 22, 2013 I've meet this guy online, and as time goes by, we're getting closed, I've known him for few months now, and I to him also. We're comfortable with each other, and we could throw jokes at each other, he's so fun to talk to, and those kidding talks went to dirty talks.. Like we're responding in chat in a playful way. And there's so much to it...Errrrr So much for that. The PROBLEM is I'm getting, getting into him!! and He's notttt...well because he said he's married.. So I really don't know what to do, he still keep on teasing me, sending me mesages.. I don't know If should reply or not, of course I can't just ignore him. So please tell me what should I do??? You know what to do: stop the flirting, or cut contact altogether. You can tell him that the flirtatious stuff makes you uncomfortable, or just ignore. And remember: if he would do this to the woman he's married to, then he would do it to you.
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