trevjim Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 To save you having to read my previous messages, myself and my ex of two and a half years decided mutaly to split, a day later she started seeing an old ex of hers (who i know full we she never/doesnt love) and got with him (possible rebound) it was a bit hostile between the 3 of us for a few weeks and then on christmas day she was texting me nice things saying thank you for getting her son the presents (which i got before we split) and asked how my day was etc. i then started n/c and havnt spoke or heard from her until today as she text..... Her: Hi, Really sorry but i accidentally deleted that messege with all the info for bills on, if you still have it could you let me know what it all is then that would be great Me: the details are.....etc Her:cool thanks, when do you want to pick up your tv? Me:I dont mind, im busy most evenings but can probable swing by after work one day. Her: Well either you want it or you dont! Im not rearranging my whole life just for you to pick up a bloody telly! Me: you can just keep it then, its not worth the hassle. Why did she go from being reasonable to suddenly snapping? was it cos i said i was busy in evenings? am i over reacting and trying to see somethings that isnt there? In the end i went round after work, didnt say much to her, picked it up and she slammed the door behind me as if im the bad one in all this lol
WhatYouWantToHear Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 You, are looking at this through your guy eyes. You use logic and reason, and you can't do that in this situation, you have to look at it through a chick's eyes. My guess is she's mostly mad at you for not being mad at her. You treated her civilly, you have been polite to her, you have been cordial. That's ticking her off to no end. She wants you to display anger towards her so she knows she's under your skin. She wants to know she's giving you a crappy day. My suggestion is to keep being polite, being nice, don't show emotion towards her and it will driver her absolutely crazy. 1
na49 Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 You, are looking at this through your guy eyes. You use logic and reason, and you can't do that in this situation, you have to look at it through a chick's eyes. My guess is she's mostly mad at you for not being mad at her. You treated her civilly, you have been polite to her, you have been cordial. That's ticking her off to no end. She wants you to display anger towards her so she knows she's under your skin. She wants to know she's giving you a crappy day. My suggestion is to keep being polite, being nice, don't show emotion towards her and it will driver her absolutely crazy. I think this is the second post of yours that I've liked lol. Anyway, pretty much what he said OP. Our exes are all hypocrites. They have no problem moving on from us, they'll be as cold as they want. Won't cry or fight for us. Won't display how unhappy they are that we're gone because maybe they aren't. They want us to try to get them back even though they'll never take us back. They love the idea that we can't live without them. On the other hand... When we show them that we are trying to move on. When we are civil. When we stay out of their business and don't cry and beg for them to come back. We are the bad guys. We are the ones who "never loved them". They take this as an insult. She's pissed because you aren't being a whiny b*tch. Good job man
Author trevjim Posted January 7, 2013 Author Posted January 7, 2013 Ha thanks guys, each day im taking more what my head says instead of my heart, and slowly moving on. If she ever came crawling back it would be hard (she is super sexy, way out my league in terms of looks) but each day im getting more used to the idea that i would tell her where to go
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