makeitright Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Ok. So first she's not my wife. We've been dating / living together for 4 years. I feel as if she's my wife. I was going to propose next month. Late December she told me she was unhappy. The next week she left me. All her close friends & family tell her she's making a mistake that she needs to talk things out with me. One friend is advising her to leave and be on her own to do this for her. An ex that she recently caught up with just got separated from his wife and told her that I could get over her easily.. that there's never a reason to be unhappy she should leave. She now tells me that she will probably date her ex. She tells me that her heart isn't in it anymore to keep trying. She tells me she still has love for me. I can't explain this behavior.. to just get up and walk away after 4 years when you still feel love for that person. To not be able to talk to your partner , family, or friends.. to seek advice from people you're just meeting. I feel like this is a classic case of Walk away wife syndrome.. I sent her a message asking her to read the article.. that I had to hit rock bottom in order to undergo a transformation. And trust me last week I couldn't go NC.. I hit rock bottom hard. Do you think she may come around and realize? Do you think there's a chance she'll come back to me?
fixing Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 I went through basically exactly this 'i have no energy anymore to make this work' ' i still have love for you' that was 3 months ago. She never came back. Seriously, you really need to cut her off mate, f### her, she wants to go back to an ex? Than she is not the one for you my friend. I know you dont want to hear this, but you gotta go no contact imo. Force yourself to believe she is not coming back and also keep reminding yourself, SHE DROPPED YOU and went back to an ex.
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