johnobi Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Guys this is a very good forum. I must thanks all for sharing out their opinion and story. This might be my last post as I think I am coping well after breakup now that I finally realize what to do. Exactly one month ago I breakup with my GF. It just came out of no where. I was hurt, devastated and depressed. As for my EX GF, she seems like moving on quiet fast maybe she does already decided to breakup with me very early and within 3 weeks later she got herself a new BF. As for me, I was like living in hell during that time.. Finally I have decided to go NC with her..During this time I realize my own mistake that lead towards the breakup. I promise myself to change where i am not good at and develop new things. I know that we must love our own self more than anyone. I have also realize that if i change myself maybe one day i could a better person. By that time whether or not to reconcile with my ex gf doesn't really important as i know i would be a better person with better quality. Me and my ex gf just reconnect back 3 days ago. She called me and we was on the phone like normal talking but only without any intimacy..I know we will keep in touch. Don't get me wrong here..I still do miss her sometimes but i also know that it would be hard to reconcile unless there is really miracle so I just wish her happiness thought in my heart i do keep some room hoping for miracle but wouldn't want to think further than that. I am moving on with my life and focus on the things i want to do. I know the road is not easy upfront as i need to cope with the void of emptiness she left for me as well as patiently changing myself. Hopefully i could succeed in doing so. I don't know whether what i am doing now is correct or not but i will keep myself to move on for the better future of me.
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