joel Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Anyone here a late bloomer. I mean even I tell most people they won't believe me. I'm 32 and never been in relationship before. The longest was 2 months a girl from Japan and I only went out like 5xs then she said I don't have feelings for u. I tried pua and done it for 4years and nothing much but Jp girl I met. Did online for 7 years off and on and most dates just end up being a one time date. I got 2 lays from dating online and a few that lasted more than one date but no more than 5 dates. They also tend to be on thicker side too. I only started trying to date at age 25 and all my 2 friends are both AFCs socialky awkward loner guys and still are. They dont care to find a gf or dating. Also my strict old fashion Chinese parents didn't want us to hang out after school and weekends but stay home to study or help out at home. Priorties was school first and was even told growing up money=girlls. They gotten less strict.My social skills suck and I end up going into interview mode. Questions . I never dated in highschool ,college and even after college. Had chances but clueless about women. I got a feeling if I do find someone it be in 3rd world country like Thailand . I tried since 25 to find a gf and nothing . Sarging ends up 4 hours /3xs a week of waste time and same online Im 32 now and my dad wants me to find a gf and wife and get married since he did at 33. How? Even at my age now I haven't had a real gf and fallen in love. I just date one time coffee . Also they picky they want a Chinese educated and looks too. Also I finished my degree but I'm working in a field that doesn't pay much and not related to my course of study. Posted via RS Mobile
JuneJulySeptember Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 (edited) Anyone here a late bloomer. I mean even I tell most people they won't believe me. I'm 32 and never been in relationship before. The longest was 2 months a girl from Japan and I only went out like 5xs then she said I don't have feelings for u. I tried pua and done it for 4years and nothing much but Jp girl I met. Did online for 7 years off and on and most dates just end up being a one time date. I got 2 lays from dating online and a few that lasted more than one date but no more than 5 dates. They also tend to be on thicker side too. I only started trying to date at age 25 and all my 2 friends are both AFCs socialky awkward loner guys and still are. They dont care to find a gf or dating. Also my strict old fashion Chinese parents didn't want us to hang out after school and weekends but stay home to study or help out at home. Priorties was school first and was even told growing up money=girlls. They gotten less strict.My social skills suck and I end up going into interview mode. Questions . I never dated in highschool ,college and even after college. Had chances but clueless about women. I got a feeling if I do find someone it be in 3rd world country like Thailand . I tried since 25 to find a gf and nothing . Sarging ends up 4 hours /3xs a week of waste time and same online Im 32 now and my dad wants me to find a gf and wife and get married since he did at 33. How? Even at my age now I haven't had a real gf and fallen in love. I just date one time coffee . Also they picky they want a Chinese educated and looks too. Also I finished my degree but I'm working in a field that doesn't pay much and not related to my course of study. Posted via RS Mobile Well. Did you get the money part done? Oh. I guess you write that you didn't. Bummer. I guess my advice to you is to join in here with the other fellas in your situation and try and pick up some tidbits. You're not alone by a long shot. Edited January 7, 2013 by JuneJulySeptember
Radu Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Your question is very general. I am what can be considered a late bloomer, lost my virginity at 25, had bad relationships one after another. Only one real short relationship, i've only come out of my shell in the past 2yrs. Do you know someone who does well with women ? The PUA stuff is basically 2 things : - peacocking yourself [what most do] - building up internal confidence, believing in yourself, overcoming socialy programmed barriers in your life Obviously the former is the most popular one.
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