fabi20 Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 (edited) hi all, it's been exactly 2 months since my bf of two yrs told me it was over, it's killing me because for some reason i know he still loves me. i want to know what you think of his personality and if you think him being the way he is had a lot to do with his decision (even if he still loved me) i've known him since we were 12 yrs old. he has a type A personality, lots of PRIDE, sticks to his guns, and has trust issues (although he trusted me 100 percent) he also might have a small case of PTSD, he served for 5 yrs and was in Afghanistan for 8 months...before he broke up with me he was having a hard time adjusting to his new job and leaving the military, he was adjusting to 'normal' life and would often complain about how unhappy he felt you see, if he thinks it's not going to work, he will move on, but even after all the fighting we did, he stuck around for 2 yrs and planned on marriage with me...i know he's very unpredictable and sometimes his friends can't even figure him out. i've been his only steady gf IN HIS 20'S , we also dated in jr high, and again after highschool (nothing serious only 3 weeks, he dumped me) then again in our mid twenties (this time around) we did fight often, over stupid things that just escalated..stupid..but again, i don't know if we fought bc of US or bc of his personality. i'm not one to fight, i'm very easy going...but then, why did we fight so much when we loved each other, and when we both agreed in the beginning we didn't want a relatonship with drama...it's like after the first fight, it went down hill...i felt him change after our first fight i did my share of damage to the relationship however, for instance, not introducing him to my mom (but these were my own issues with my mom and when i explained this to him he would be more passive than anything else, not really expressing how this made him feel) towards the break up he told me i had made him feel like **** for making him feel he wasnt good enough to introduce to my parents, this was the first time i saw how much it affected him when he came back in my life i was very skeptical bc even though i always had feelings for him i knew his history and i knew his unique character, i thought, wait, if something goes wrong or once we pass the honey moon stage he's going to leave, i just had this thought bc i've known him...i don't blame him, but i'm just trying to figure out if he's going to regret his decision like he regretted last time. he told me he was so sorry for breaking my heart when we were younger and acting so cold with me after wards, that i was the love of his life, and he knew he wanted to be with me for the rest of his life, and that he would never let me go AGAIN, but he did! ..it sucks not knowing if it's his own issues or if he really is not in love with me anymore Edited January 7, 2013 by fabi20
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