ecrof Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Im going to try and keep this as brief as possible. I dont really date, I havent dated for 8 years(by choice). So I just joined the Air Force and didnt know how much time it would take for me to actually leave, so I got a job at a local hardware store. Things started clicking from about day 3 with this girl at work, long story short we worked together everyday(having long talks as we worked, smiling, laughing...everyone could see how happy we were) for about 3 months before we started dating outside of work. Well soon after we started dating I found out that I booked a job and was to leave for bootcamp in 4 months. We talked about the Air Force alot, no matter how many times I brought it up she would tell me it was ok that I was leaving, we would work things out. This woman also introduced me to her son, who seemed to be very comfortable with me from the getgo(apparently this was rare for him). I really loved her son, and he throughly enjoyed being around me as well. I got close to her family and her sister during this time, they all loved me. She'd tell me how I was the best thing to ever happen to her, blah blah. Then one week before I ship off, I find out shes cheated on me with her ex(her sons dad)...I tell her it over. She wont let me see her son before I ship off, who constantly asks about me. So I go to bootcamp without ever seeing her or her son again. 3 weeks into bootcamp I write her a letter about the crap she did to me. I received a letter back from her that is 7 full pages long, about how she misses me and how sorry she is for what she did, how she wants me to see her son and her family for Christmas. Well I graduate bootcamp and go home for Christmas exodus. She is ignoring me and only texted me to tell me to leave her alone. Oh and my favorite, that her son doesnt need to remember me. BTW according to her sister, her son has been talking constantly about how hes gonna see me for Christmas. I basically pleaded with her for a week to at least see her son...when it was finally time to return and I got on the plane I realized I wasnt going to see him...it really set in, I balled like a baby to be honest. I know youll all say shes got to go, forget her...wish it was that easy. The mind says shes no good, the heart doesnt agree. Does anyone know whats going through this womans head, I dont understand the sudden attitude shift.
fabi20 Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 You're too nice of a guy for this treatment. She has her own issues, all you can do is express to her that you feel like she's been playing with your head, if you ever talk to her again....and be more careful with your heart around her...time will tell if she's worth it or not, but i don't think she is
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