sammiexo Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 lately my boyfriend has been taking his anger out on me because he is unhappy with life. for example...the other month he said since everyone cheats he should too because i am never around. he later apologized and said he was not in the right frame of mind and was stressed out at work. today as we were paying for dinner, i got out my wallet and as i was doing so he called me a moocher. it really hurt my feelings because i usually pay my share and ironic because his sister and dad are the real moochers, always hitting him up for money due to laziness on their part, yet he doesn't say anything to them. i told my bf his words hurt and he said he was sorry. i asked him why he takes things out on me and he said "who else would i do it to?" it's like he is so nice to everyone else but with me he can be so mean and nasty. we have been dating 8 years for reference..what should i do? or am i just too sensitive?
NoMagicBullet Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 i asked him why he takes things out on me and he said "who else would i do it to?" it's like he is so nice to everyone else but with me he can be so mean and nasty. we have been dating 8 years for reference..what should i do? or am i just too sensitive? Wha....? You've been dating for 8 years? Have you both decided not to marry that you are still dating after all this time? You get out your wallet to pay your share, and he calls you a moocher as you're about to contribute money? And he actually said what I bolded above? I find it hard to believe that he's been great up until now and suddenly changed into a d-bag after 8 years. There's more to this than you're telling us, isn't there? Short answer: him saying those things to you is wrong. Why he's doing it... don't know, but you should post additional info if you want better advice. 1
Maneater Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 I agree with the above poster. it sounds like this guy has serious issues that are more than the average emotional baggage. What he said was def wrong! Sounds like you more than pull your weight in the relationship.
Author sammiexo Posted January 7, 2013 Author Posted January 7, 2013 yes, he really did say that. he doesn't do it on a daily basis but he does take jabs at me from time to time and it has increased over the past year. no, our relationship is not all hunky dory, i have posted a couple of threads related to other issues in our relationship.
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