808s Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Hey everyone, This is my first time posting here. Its about my ex girlfriend. Her first love was another guy. She was my first love. I met her when I was 19 through a friend. Months after when I was 20 she noticed me at a college party (she was visiting a friend). We talked and I got her number. I seen her again at my college a month later. This time we made out, but I was young and didn't care too much on one girl. lol So i rejected her, I didnt want a girlfriend. She kept asking me to hang out with her and I ignored her so many times. Forward to march 2011 I gave her a chance (she came to my college to visit again) This time we hung out and she was really nice to me, so I stuck around. When I left my campus back home. I couldnt stop hanging around her I even met her mom. And this is the time we became official bf/gf Fast forward a year and a half later. The end of summer 2011. I was having trouble with trusting her. For no reason. I was really insecure and she was way more mature than me. We had broken up two monts before for the same reason. But she gave me a second chance. But I did not learn. This time it was a real break up. Fast forward early 2012 I had casually dated twice by then with other women. I went to a phase of loving myself and became more mature, 22 at the time. I completely got over her. I went through some awesome experiences. Graduated and left the state and worked in the east coast for 6months. Fast forward late december 2012 I saw my ex girlfriend in the public transportation, got her contact and hung out a couple days later. By this time I thought all my feelings have gone away. But I keep thinking of her so much. Its like I'm back to square one. We have really good chemestry and we broke up in a good note. And the reason was because I was insecure, but now I'm completely more mature and secure. We talked for an hour - it was all laughs and goals in life. Nothing about our past. But I cannot stop thinking of this woman . I could tell she doesnt want to get back with the ways she says things. I really want to get back with her. Its so hard to just not think about her. Its really weird, I feel more sad this time than the actual break up in 2011. I think because I realized what I lost.
HARPER100 Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 If she's not interested then the best thing you can do is go no contact. Trying to be friends with an ex when you have feelings for them is doomed to failure. I've tried a couple of times and it's never lasted more than a few weeks.
fancy feast Posted January 8, 2013 Posted January 8, 2013 Keep your love locked down...sorry. Seriously, if you don't think she's into it then save yourself some trouble. I think you're the best judge of her interest.
Author 808s Posted January 8, 2013 Author Posted January 8, 2013 okay thanks guys. I deleted her contact information from my phone.
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