sunflower745 Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 So my bf lives with me and my parents but he's currently working at a crappy job and going to school and we hardly ever go out cuz he says he never has money and is always working or at school. I do get frustrated cuz we don't do anything but I support him cuz he's going to school and don't want him to feel he has to spend money on me. What I do want is to at least go out and browse around anywhere take a walk at the park just something out of the house where we can get some fresh air and enjoy together time. I've told him so many times but nothing's really changed. Instead what happens is that on his day off he wants to go see his dad cuz he hardly does either instead of us spending time together. I don't want to sound selfish but I figure he would want to spend more time with me alone.
Author sunflower745 Posted January 7, 2013 Author Posted January 7, 2013 Also, my parents allowed him into our home after he got laid off from his previous job and his dad didn't really want him to move in with him. So, that's why I get mad too. I don't want to bring that up but it makes me so angry ...sure it's his dad and he helps him with money at times but not when he needed a home cuz he couldn't pay his apartment anymore.
sammiexo Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 I understand, in a similar situation. But it's his dad, not much you can say without looking selfish/possessive. Maybe go with your BF to visit the dad and then go out just you two afterwards?
Author sunflower745 Posted January 7, 2013 Author Posted January 7, 2013 Thanks for replying. Yea he does invite me and I go but it's been a while since we've both done something and it irritated me more this time ....:sigh: oh well...
Alia_alia Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Work on some relaxing time together. When your life is busy, the last thing you wanna do is "go out to a nice restaurant". Put some soothing music on, get a bit of cheap wine and just give massages to each other / cuddle. Or you could take a bath together in the hot tub... very relaxing : ). If you want to do small things with him just be spontaneous. If you wanna go to a park, just grab his hand and say you wanna go to one. Doesn't have to be a "date" and it can be done anytime, after school or something. If he disagrees, just go on your own to the park : ).
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