skings Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 NC Day# 1 This is my first ever thread on any subject let alone break up. My ex dumped me 6 months into the relationship. Communication seemed to be the major issue as she thought I was not serious enough and I thought she would break up with me if I told her that I loved her and so on. She is a grad student and I am a working professional, so I didnt want to bother her much until her graduation. I guess when I talked my emotions out loud (after break up), it was too little, too late. Also I realized if someone truly loved me and when I told her I loved her too, she wouldn't have let me go. So it was all a fantasy imo. I have been terrible with the break up recovery rules. I have texted her, messaged her, called her, and even had dinner one night when I basically cried for 2 hours in a restaurant. We have been in touch since then but today I decided to delete all the messages, her number and unfriend her on FB. I am not sure I am feeling good now but I am positive that I feel great with time. I tried writing things down or texting my friends to divert my thoughts or control my emotions and it kinda worked. I thought I would use this forum to vent my emotions out and get some help. Thanks. 1
Missing Him Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Good luck! This is one of the toughest things, I know. The best advice that I got in this situation is to not put too much pressure on yourself. Allow yourself to feel whatever you feel and worry more about taking care of yourself than about not contacting her. Day 1 is tough but making it through that feels like SUCH an accomplishment. Just take it slow! Having a place to vent will definitely help.
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