frederickkk Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 impossible to stop. impossible to see anything past.
littlesunshine Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Go watch a few movies when you want to contact her, just find a way for you to escape.
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Maybe after the 3,000th email she'll come around LOL.
SuperGeek Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 impossible to stop. impossible to see anything past. Ask yourself a few questions. Should you have to beg someone to be with you? To love you? To be by your side when life is hard? If she was truly into you, she'd be right there with you, right now, but she isn't. You have to learn to let it go or it will eat you alive. Get yourself a white board or a calendar and put it on the wall where you always see it. Every hour you don't contact your ex, write it down on the board as an accomplishment. I used this method when I first went NC and it was insanely hard just to go 1 hour without some kind of reaching out. Before I knew it I was up to a few hours and then that eventually grew into days, weeks, and then months. It got easier over time. You have to start somewhere. Do not beg your ex to come back to you. She isn't worth it. I don't know your story, but it doesn't matter. Learn from it and move on. SuperGeek
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