MelodyRye Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 It's nearly 2 years later since breaking my guy friend's trust (it's on my old threads when I first came here and though I got judged harshly it was deserved, how could I done this to someone who at the time considered me almost the only trusted friend). I'm lucky I was forgiven but nope, we don't hang out too much and only chat on facebook on either special occasions or once in while when one of us is bored. Just learned he has a gf by now. Glad to hear everything is going well and he was able to recover from that long ago incidence I caused. I guess it's like that. You break someone's trust and can't never get it back to that level again or at least closer. But I'm older now; nearly 20. I'm going to leave it like that. At some point I got tired of apologizing. I lost track of how many times I said ''I'm sorry''. I guess what matter is a I was forgiven and he still wants me as a friend, though not like before. It's true afterall. They can forgive you but never forget.
Angel Heart Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I agree completely, one does forgive but never forgets; trust is lost. My currrent partner mentioned he cheated on his wife and that is such a red flag for me. Perhaps, I can't help but wonder if he is capable of exclusity. After over 17yrs, I still haven't forgotten my former spouse cheating on me and leaving me for her. Time helps to forget and forgive but the memories affect me to this day.
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