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Just looking to assuage my grief & fear - NC after a breakup


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If a woman you've been with for 1+ years is afraid of losing you (now we haven't broken up... yet. We're in a funky stage)... and it wasn't a BAD breakup... I am an emotional, caring, loving guy... I CAN'T handle being friends with any of my exes... but she doesn't want to lose me. Is it cruel to her to disappear from her life forever? I'm under the philosophy/belief that once broken, it's broken. It'd take A LOT to repair our relationship... even if she begs... and we both feel it's right to get back together, I feel that eventually the reason we broke up in the first place will reemerge and make my heart suffer once more.

 

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Is it selfish of me?

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No I don't think it's selfish of you to do this. Sometimes we just have to choose for us and not others...

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