lovely love Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Sooo i work at a daycare and one of my parents is this super sexy father. He comes in and hes always lingering around and hes always looking at me. He actually came up yo me and introduced himself. Then he when he left my classroom he says"its nice to mee you, finally" then a few weeks ago i caught him nearly breaking his neck just to look at me. Is he interested even though he's married? I know how this may look but i have no intention on doing anything. Its unprofessional and im not about to be a homewrecker
TaraMaiden Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Sooo i work at a daycare and one of my parents is this super sexy father. He comes in and hes always lingering around and hes always looking at me. He actually came up yo me and introduced himself. Then he when he left my classroom he says"its nice to mee you, finally" then a few weeks ago i caught him nearly breaking his neck just to look at me. Is he interested even though he's married? I know how this may look but i have no intention on doing anything. Its unprofessional and im not about to be a homewrecker So if you have no intention of doing anything - why does it matter? Ignore it. Assume - and assume only this, and NOTHING else - that he's just thee friendly type. That's all you need to consider. 3
KathyM Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 He's probably attracted, but I would suggest you make an effort to discourage him. If you start to look at him excessively, flirt or give him more attention than normal, he'll think you are interested, and he may suggest something. It's good that you have the character to not act on this interest. Now you need to have the character to discourage him by not showing him interest in the ways that I mentioned. Don't flirt, don't show him excessive attention any more than you would any other customer, and don't keep looking at him. 1
rocketman122 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 So if you have no intention of doing anything - why does it matter? exactly. youre fantasizing about him. stop it. married or even separated couples are a big no no. off limits. find someone single or divorced, or a widow. 1
CarrieT Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Its unprofessional and im not about to be a homewrecker Then ignore him and be nothing but professional.
FitChick Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Talk about your imaginary boyfriend. Watch the change in his behavior. 2
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