makeitright Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 (edited) I don't know how to maintain NC! She left me last friday asking for space and time. This entire week I've made her life harder, giving her love letters, talking with her friends and family. Her friends and family have tried to make her see that she's being foolish and not to throw away what we have. She's starting to date a married man who has children that is currently separated from his wife. She's turning 30 and listening to only one person in her life.. a woman she works with who she just started becoming friends with. She is telling her to not listen to the advice of other and to what she "needs" to do. I'm trying to get her to remember the love that we shared.. Trying to get her to understand that our problems were simple that all loving relationships go through. We were together for 4 years and lived together almost the entire time. I'm having so much difficulty with NC. She's making poor decisions, getting bad advice and not listening to those who love her. How do I make her see? How do I make her open her eyes? She's told me she still loves me but that her heart isn't willing to try. She appears to be moving on so quickly.. she's already on this guys bowling league and has stayed in his apartment. My friends and family tell me to move on.. that in time she'll realize. I know that I can get over her.. I know I can meet someone new. But she is the love of my life and I don't want to meet anyone else. Edited January 6, 2013 by makeitright
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