Fraglos Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Me and my ex met in Europe in 2011 while I was studying there and dated for half a year. We continued to see each other even when I had to go back home to finish school. I came to see her in December of that year and stayed for 2 months and it was wonderful. We both cried when I had to get on the bus to get back to the airport. I tried finding work in Europe, but with my degree track, it was hard to do, especially since I'd have to be sponsored on a visa. We still tried to keep it up, but we broke up over that summer because we had no idea when we would see each other again. We still talked to each other almost every day, and even though the break up hurts, I'm still madly in love with her. I landed a job teaching English in Asia though and through this, you can save up money quite well for a year. I'm hoping to save up my money and go to grad school in Europe (this is something that I genuinely want to do, not as a way to get closer), and with this, I have vacation time at the end of next month for 2 weeks. I wanted to go see her and when I asked her recently about it, she told me there was perhaps a problem with this, as she was kind of with someone. I asked her about it and she says it's nothing serious, but she doesn't want to start any drama or anything like that. However, after I Skyped her a couple of days ago, I flirted with her about it and she seems like she still wants me to, although perhaps a little bit hesitant, which I can understand. How would I go about handling this? I'm going to Europe during the vacation time regardless, but I really want to see her, and I believe it gives me a chance to show her how much I still love her and that we can still work in the future. Though it hurts to think about her with someone else, I'm not laying down my guns. Sorry if this seems sort of like rambling. Tried to type it as quick as I possibly could. Also, do I need to limit my contact with her, or continue to talk with her? I don't want to just become emotional support or a crutch to lean back on.
umirano Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Be straight forward with her? Tell her you still love her and want to try to get her back and that you want to meet her for that reason. Then she can make up her mind and tell you whether this plan has any chance of achieving what you want. good luck! 3
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