Mr.White Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 The ex and I took a break on December 7th and broke up on the 21st. I just checked her twitter and turns out she has another boyfriend already, it does hurt me knowing she just jumped so quickly but it makes me feel so much better knowing its over and I have accepted it. I actually do hope everything works out well for them as well. I am glad she is happy. Wow, I thought it would take me longer to move on. I have been feeling much better these past two weeks and know how fun being single can be. It was so easy to fall out of love with her that I am amazed of how quickly someone so important once to me can mean near to nothing for me. Input your opinions.
Keenly Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Ha ha you think your done grieving already? You remind me of me.
Author Mr.White Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 Ha ha you think your done grieving already? You remind me of me. Tell me more.
Keenly Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Tell me more. It's gonna ebb and flow. Just be ready for it is all I'm saying.
user6667 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 are you sure you are over it? you may be in denial, or you may have skipped ahead to acceptance without really handling it all if not, good for you, enjoy moving on
Author Mr.White Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 I see what you mean Keenly, I have experienced the up and downs before but hopefully they do not come back again. Well at least tomorrow I have plans so it will help me get my mind off of things. I was in denial,sad, and angry for the past month and now I feel like I have accepted it. In some other thread I read Relationships Ending: The Five Stages of Grief After a Break Up and it is spot on about my feelings. I did not bargain because I laid all of my cards to save the relationship but it still did not work. I guess I will have to wait until I am alone with my thoughts for thee next few days.
rys Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I just checked her twitter not yet there but almost 1
edgygirl Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 How long were you together? They say it takes a month for every year. The thing about the grief phases is that they can go back and forth over and over, they're not linear as stated. One day you think you're fine and then you go back to phase 2., etc.
Author Mr.White Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 How long were you together? They say it takes a month for every year. The thing about the grief phases is that they can go back and forth over and over, they're not linear as stated. One day you think you're fine and then you go back to phase 2., etc. Almost two years, but I gave everything for this relationship to work out in the end so I have closure from not thinking 'what ifs'. I understand that, I feel great this morning and I am going to finally going out again today with friends and a lovely date
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