lost87 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Hey guys, i was going with my ex 3 years and wee splitt back in may 2012! Shes 5 years younger than me (20) and wee had been living together for 2 years. The relationship had alot of stress at times esp with her being so young dealing with the responsibility of bills etc and her reason for leaving was that she needed to live her life like a 20 year old should an the rest of her m8s lyk out partyin etc! Well to be honest it broke my heart when wee splitt as it was on good terms and i really loved her an planned to b with her but from the splitt ive found it really hard getting over her and became severley depressed and put on antidepressants, suicidle at my worst! Ive practically been housebound since! She said when wee splitt that she just needed a year or so to do her thing and she would come back and that she still loved me. Today she called for a few things of hers that wer still here and i asked the question have you been seeing any1 as its been wrecking me for months wondering what shes been doin an who with. She kept saying no then finally came out with yes she had, and has been seeing him for the past 5months. I was absolutly gutted an wish i hadnt asked! I got abit upset and told her to leave then i text her tonight asking why over the past load of months hav u been lying to me and getting on as if nothings happening, and she said because she had to lie because of me being depressed and she didnt want to rub salt into my wounds. I said but youve known that ive missed you so much an still love you so much an she can just go and start sleeping with another guy a month after splitting up, knowing how unwell i had become and text, visited etc letting on that nothing was going on! She finally came out with, wee shouldnt speak agin and that we'l never be back together and admitted that she lied at the very start about us mayb gettin bk agin aftr her doin her thing, i know it was her way of just leaving me as a backup and from that has put me through so much hell ovr the past load of months, and shes just stayed silent and completely mugged me off! I give her the full message saying how heartless she was and how she cud do this to me after "loving me for 3 years" its just the fact that she didnt tell me the truth at the start of the breakup and put me through hell waiting on her lyk a dick for absolutly nothing! But that it completly finished with her now an ive said i dont want anything to do with her again! Have i done the right thing, what do u guys think of all this?
rys Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Hey guys, i was going with my ex 3 years and wee splitt back in may 2012! Shes 5 years younger than me (20) and wee had been living together for 2 years. The relationship had alot of stress at times esp with her being so young dealing with the responsibility of bills etc and her reason for leaving was that she needed to live her life like a 20 year old should an the rest of her m8s lyk out partyin etc! Well to be honest it broke my heart when wee splitt as it was on good terms and i really loved her an planned to b with her but from the splitt ive found it really hard getting over her and became severley depressed and put on antidepressants, suicidle at my worst! Ive practically been housebound since! She said when wee splitt that she just needed a year or so to do her thing and she would come back and that she still loved me. Today she called for a few things of hers that wer still here and i asked the question have you been seeing any1 as its been wrecking me for months wondering what shes been doin an who with. She kept saying no then finally came out with yes she had, and has been seeing him for the past 5months. I was absolutly gutted an wish i hadnt asked! I got abit upset and told her to leave then i text her tonight asking why over the past load of months hav u been lying to me and getting on as if nothings happening, and she said because she had to lie because of me being depressed and she didnt want to rub salt into my wounds. I said but youve known that ive missed you so much an still love you so much an she can just go and start sleeping with another guy a month after splitting up, knowing how unwell i had become and text, visited etc letting on that nothing was going on! She finally came out with, wee shouldnt speak agin and that we'l never be back together and admitted that she lied at the very start about us mayb gettin bk agin aftr her doin her thing, i know it was her way of just leaving me as a backup and from that has put me through so much hell ovr the past load of months, and shes just stayed silent and completely mugged me off! I give her the full message saying how heartless she was and how she cud do this to me after "loving me for 3 years" its just the fact that she didnt tell me the truth at the start of the breakup and put me through hell waiting on her lyk a dick for absolutly nothing! But that it completly finished with her now an ive said i dont want anything to do with her again! Have i done the right thing, what do u guys think of all this? right thing? as in saying you dont want anything to do with her again? yes. she cheated on you.
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