natwilliams Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I actually recounted all my efforts with girls for 2012. 27 girls, 100% failure (that's just counting girl's whose number/email I got, not ones I approached and failed right on the spot). People have told me I have everything a girl would want in a man - looks, personality, everything. How is this even possible? Does anyone else have this feeling of being cursed by God to a life of unbelievable torture by dating failure again and again and again and again and again and again and again and again ad again for all eternity?
Treasa Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I commend you for having huge balls and approaching that many women. That's impressive and a turn on. 1
SJC2008 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I'll summarize the resopnes you'll get! Have confidence! Whenever you have confidence it radiates! (whatever the phuk that means). Work on your social skills! 2
april38 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 It's not a curse, but obviously there's a pattern here - attempt, failure, attempt, failure, etc...so, maybe you should look at why it's not working out. Are you going after girls for just sex, or are you looking for a deeper connection? Are you going after girls that you're not really interested in, or maybe girls that you don't have anything in common with? Are you putting on a facade on the dates and not allowing your true self to shine through? There must be a reason for your drought. Try not to look on the outside, and look within...
rys Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 if you're too good looking - yeah, it's a curse how do you approach women, btw?
somedude81 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I'll summarize the resopnes you'll get! Have confidence! Whenever you have confidence it radiates! (whatever the phuk that means). Work on your social skills! He also could work out more and get better clothes. Doesn't if he already dresses great and has a 6-pack. 1
ThaWholigan Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 You sound like you're trying a bit too hard. Obviously we can't see what you're like in these scenarios, we don't have much to go on - hence why we have to resort to standard advice types like the guys above noted (). I would suggest that you try to identify exactly what it is you do when you approach these women or are on dates. That way, we can help you specifically target your problem. My guess is that you probably aren't as relaxed and might be forcing it a little, but I have to say I commend you for actually approaching 20+ women this year - that's more than a lot of guys who struggle.
mortensorchid Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Without knowing more details other than there were 27 and you tried/failed with each of them, hard to say what the "problem" is. 1
SJC2008 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 He also could work out more and get better clothes. Doesn't if he already dresses great and has a 6-pack. lol! I left some things out of my post... Walk with purpose, be firm with your tone! Women want leaders!!! 1
ThaWholigan Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 You guys can laugh at that advice all you want, but more often than not it actually works if you go and do it. 1
KungFuJoe Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 He also could work out more and get better clothes. Doesn't if he already dresses great and has a 6-pack. Ah... I sense a bit of mockery at my expense. Ill remember this the next time you want to borrow my lawnmower.
somedude81 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Ah... I sense a bit of mockery at my expense. Ill remember this the next time you want to borrow my lawnmower. You're expense? I didn't tell him to learn Kung Fu.. natwilliams, you should be like Joe.
CptObvious Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 27 strikeouts? damn, those bitches just threw a perfect game. 1
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