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What's your weakness when it comes to attraction?


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I have a weakness for gingers with dimples. :love:

 

Ohhhh, I totally agree. :love:

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I have a weakness - pretty boys in rock bands. But I AM GOING TO GET OVER IT and NO MORE OF THEM. I am done with their tantrums and dramas and self centeredness. It's exciting, but they are not the end all be all.

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Can't say which tops out of these three: long hair, eyes, and voice. Certain ones will make me undeniably fall fast.

 

To me nothing is better to a woman's look as those two and her voice..

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Women that describe me when making lists of preferences :lmao:

 

Anyhow being serious, Japanese girls are my weakness. Can't explain it, shape of eyes / skin tone / hair texture / gestures / vocal pitch. Simply so enchantingly delicate I'm left speechless.

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-brunettes--light brown, medium brown, dark brown, black. Doesn't matter

-pear shaped bodies

-hour glass shaped bodies

-green eyes

-blue eyes

-light brown eyes

-accents

 

Basically if you're a brunette with a cute face and an ass you most certainly have my attention. You really don't need much else physically. I believe it's my obsession with brunettes that has made them harder for me to land, and harder for me to keep. I have had the most success with blondes; probably because my tongue doesn't roll out of my mouth when I see one and I'm able to keep my cool. Still learning how to do this with brunettes. It's damn hard.

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I have a weakness for a certain kind of proud strut some rare females do. I don't even think it's intentional--it's just in my head that she exudes a kind of pride that ya just go gaga for. I like how girls walk with their arms folded like they are keeping there tits warm--especially when they wear a nice cardigan draped over their shoulders instead of worn with the arms in the sleeves. It's very feminine and dainty in a way that makes me want to make sure she's as warm as she needs to be.

Hoop ear rings. Nice complexions that don't need make-up. Yummy.

Girly girls. Oh yeah. Nothing manish. eww

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longish dark hair....olive skin....nicely shaped arms...sarcasm

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My weakness is an accent. Particularly an English/Irish/Welsh/Scottish accent.

 

 

:) That is not one accent. Those are 4 vastly different accents from 4 different countries.

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Men that have pets. Cats in particular :love:

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I dont get attracted easily, i dotn have preferences accept fro a metered voice, that has something, a memory a feeling a sit up and take notice because i know i like it.........maybe its because i can imagine that voice near the shell of my ear, or saying things i like to be said, just waiting fro the right person to say them and actually know what to say.....hasnt happened yet....a guy who knows he doesnt have to impress other men who doesnt need to yell to get a point across who has inner core strength to forgive and forget.....i pick these qualities up pretty quickly......i dont have a nationality preference, and i actually like a guy who is close to my height....my ex was 5 foot 9 but built like a tank and had a soft metered calm voice..i really shouldnt use him as an example...lol...we aint together because he is a raving cheat and a liar...but he did have and still does have qualities that are commendable.....besides being an ass and knowing he stuffed up..he just wasnt right for me....he is considered good looking if not a little imposing...but he always speaks softly but when he is mad he has an edge to that cultured voice...no crap or watch out implied ....my weakness is always an alpha beta fusion...who doesnt give a crap about status quo.deb

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Shoulder hair, olive skin, green eyes.

Nice breasts but not too big, ok butt but not too big ... waist [i really love this].

 

Seeing the above in a summer dress ... :love:

 

:) That is not one accent. Those are 4 vastly different accents from 4 different countries.

Don't you mean 4 vastly different accents from 2 not-so-different countries ?

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Brunette/dark hair, straight, shoulder length or longer.

Blue or green eyes that pop.

Mouth/smile that curls up in the corners. Some curl down, it looks like they are sad. Preferably red lipstick.

I am definitely a face man, think Lucy Lawless as Xena, yummy.

Not too skinny, I need something to hold.

Intelligent. I love a good sparring session as long as no grudges are held when I win ;)

Dominant, or at least not passive.

In fact just give me Zena and be done with it.

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Shoulder hair, olive skin, green eyes.

Nice breasts but not too big, ok butt but not too big ... waist [i really love this].

 

Seeing the above in a summer dress ... :love:

 

 

Don't you mean 4 vastly different accents from 2 not-so-different countries ?

 

They are definitely 4 countries all with different cultures and politics

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Men that have pets. Cats in particular :love:

 

I have a dog and six cats, you should come meet them :D

 

Weaknesses are girl athletes and girls who can dance, and I mean girls who CAN dance not those that think they can dance. Humor is up there but unfortunately kinda rare. I met a girl at a party about 3 years ago, the one and only time we met, and I still vividly remember her because she had me in tears laughing all night. She was one of the funniest people I ever met.

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:) That is not one accent. Those are 4 vastly different accents from 4 different countries.

 

I know, and I like them all. Sorry, that was supposed to be a "any one of these" kind of thing. :laugh:

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Shoulder hair, olive skin, green eyes.

Nice breasts but not too big, ok butt but not too big ... waist [i really love this].

 

Seeing the above in a summer dress ... :love:

 

 

Don't you mean 4 vastly different accents from 2 not-so-different countries ?

 

Yeah, I pretty much mean any variation of any of the above-listed. ;)

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- making me laugh!

- dark eyes, dark hair, olive skin

- eyelashes

- nice forearms

- science guys - physics, maths, biology, medicine...

- men with animals or children (and I don't even like children)

- cooking skills

- firm embrace

- the smell of their freshly washed hair

 

Also nice firm ass - my friend has a theory that women are so attracted to that because it's a sign of how well a man can thrust during sex :)

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I second the British accents :love:

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I have two huge weaknesses when meeting new men (although plenty of other preferences, of course):

 

1) Men who are wicked smart and passionate about some intellectual hobby or career. Feeling like a man is more intelligent than me (his intellectual skills don't have to be the same as mine, just equivalent or more) is a major turn-on.

2) Truly "outdoorsy" men. Climbers, skiers, divers, etc immediately grab my attention. The smell of a man after a day back-country skiing... snow, pine trees, sweat, wet wool from his hat, and that indescribably "wild" smell... oh, yum. Irresistible.

 

Naturally, wicked smart men who tear it up outside are my Achilles' heel. I have plenty of other preferences and requirements for a long-term relationship, but these two are by far the biggest immediate draws.

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I love deep eyes. Especially dark brown - when they are deep and dark, shiny - I can look into them all day.

 

 

Big time. During sex when they shine ... :love::love::love: nothing quite like it

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Totally agree about the dark brown eyes:love:

 

Another thing I must have a weakness for is hard-working men. Case in point, there is a man who works at a local restaurant that Ive been crushing on for kind of a year. Aside from finding him good looking, I can see he seems like a hard worker, and I find that I admire that about him.:love:

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I especially like trying to figure out where these weaknesses came from.

 

For example, I definitely have a thing for girls with glasses. Why is that? Where did that come from? I'm sure, to some extent, it comes from my general interest in intelligent women, and I associate glasses with that.

 

It may also be a sign that a girl isn't completely obsessed with the way she looks. Generally, we think of people who are obsessed with primping and make up and preparation are the sort of people who would wear contacts and avoid glasses at all costs because it could mess up their "look."

 

Both of these are associations, mind you. Obviously, many women (And men) who wear glasses aren't actually all that bright. Many women who wear glasses actually do pick them very carefully and are obsessed with their look. These aren't absolute rules to live by, just general ones, and it 's probably where my love of glasses came from.

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A foreign accent.

A muscular body (but not too muscular).

A suntan.

A handsome face.

 

Those are what physically attracted me to my husband and what attracted me to an ex boyfriend as well.

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English accent. I've been listening to BBC Radio 4 online.

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English accent. I've been listening to BBC Radio 4 online.

 

Yeah, but we don't all sound like Blowers or CMJ. J'nah what I mean, me ol' cock spadgah? Da Bow Bells pattah ain't oft 'eard on de uppah floor, girl.

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