becks77 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 So I thought I was dealing with things quite well - just before xmas I was feeling much more positive - had managed 1 month NC on xmas eve and then he texted me on xmas day which set me back a bit. Still, I was managing to get through the days without obsessing too much and most days without crying. But, it's been 7 weeks now since I last saw him (we were together for nearly 2 years) and I have had 3 very bad days - ok, on one of them I had to go to a funeral but I just couldn't stop thinking about how much I missed him and needed him. I know there is no 'normal' and everyone reacts differently to breakups but how have you guys found the aftermath of your breakups in terms of thinking about them/crying/staying NC? Do I need to give myself a wake up call and force myself to feel better? What helps you when you're having a bad day? Grrrr! I wish I could snap out of this!
punkrocksista Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Why did you break up, just understand the reasons for the breakup, and just remember, whatever meant to be will find its way back into your life. I know it hurts and sucks but its true. Please answer mines http://www.loveshack.org/forums/romantic/marriage-life-partnerships/infidelity/365604-am-i-cheater-i-feel-bad-crossing-lines-boyfriend 1
fancy feast Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Fill the void with stuff you like to do. Eventually you might find that you enjoy having the time to do these things instead of being despondent over someone.
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