amber33 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 So, I've been dating my guy for a little over 5 months now, and as far as I could tell, everything was going great. Until lately. I just feel like my boyfriend doesn't want to hang out with me anymore. Here's the deal. On December 23rd, we hung out, exchanged Christmas gifts with each other, and finally said I love you for the first time. Then, we didn't hang out for about a week, so I asked him to hang out and he said he would call me later in the evening. He never called. I got kind of upset, but I didn't say anything to him about it. The next day, I sent him a text and stupidly apologized for not calling him (even though he was supposed to call me) and I asked him to hang out that evening. Then, that evening came and he asked me if I would mind hanging out with one of his friends too, because he was getting ready to leave for school the next day and my boyfriend wanted to see him before he left. I had just worked until 4am the night before, so I was tired and I honestly just wanted to cuddle with him, I didn't really feel like hanging out with his friend. So I told him that I was tired and I didn't want to mess up his plans by making him leave early, so I told him to just go ahead and hang out with his friend and then call me afterwards. I told him ahead of time that if I fell asleep before I heard from him that we would just hang out the next day. Of course, I fell asleep, so we hung out the next day. When we finally hung out, we got something to eat and drove around for a little while, so we just hung out for about two hours because it was getting late and he works pretty early. I was bummed when I got home because I felt like I barely even got to see him. So I waited a day, and then I asked him what he was up to last night. He told me he was going to a local hockey game with a friend. I asked him if he wanted to hang out afterwards an he said "yeah, sure". So I stayed up as late as I could last night and fell asleep waiting for his call. I woke up this morning to no missed call or text, and I instantly started crying. In the past two weeks, we've only seen each other for two hours, all of which was spent eating and driving. I just feel like he doesn't care to hang out with me anymore or something. This is like the 3rd time something like this has happened where he's either forgotten our plans or is blatantly ignoring them or something. I kind of want to talk to him about it, but I have no idea what to even say to him. All morning, I have been sitting here wanting to ask him what the hell happened to him last night, but I can't bring myself to do it because part of me feels like I should wait for him to contact me after what happened last night. I guess I'm just hoping he'll realize he forgot and apologize today. If he doesn't though, I feel like I need to talk about it with him because its really starting to hurt my feelings. Any advice on how to deal with this situation? Should I wait for him to contact me? Or should I contact him to have a talk about it? I would really appreciate your advice!
Balzac Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Undergrad students~~on holiday break? I'm a bit confused as to lifestyle chapter.
Author amber33 Posted January 5, 2013 Author Posted January 5, 2013 We are both undergrads. I am 22, he is 23. Does that help?
weee111 Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 I'm a guy..but if a girl did this to me I'd drop her like a bad habit and look for someone who actually wants to spend time with me.
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