Missing Him Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I attempted to go no contact with my ex. It lasted four days and then he messaged me, which set me back a little and resulted in both of us talking the past few days. Nothing changed, except for both of us coming to the realization that I'm suffering from really bad anxiety and some depression. It's not necessarily because of the breakup, it's just something that I'm going through. We decided again today that it was best to go no contact. I asked him to not contact me because all it did was set me back, and he agreed. The problem is that he is always open to speaking to me. He tells me he still loves me, cares about me, has hope for us for the future after we've grown, etc. and it just makes it so hard for me Anyway, I need this thread for myself to jot my feelings and stuff and to make sure that I don't continue to use my ex as a crutch for my anxiety. No Contact sucks 1
na49 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I attempted to go no contact with my ex. It lasted four days and then he messaged me, which set me back a little and resulted in both of us talking the past few days. Nothing changed, except for both of us coming to the realization that I'm suffering from really bad anxiety and some depression. It's not necessarily because of the breakup, it's just something that I'm going through. We decided again today that it was best to go no contact. I asked him to not contact me because all it did was set me back, and he agreed. The problem is that he is always open to speaking to me. He tells me he still loves me, cares about me, has hope for us for the future after we've grown, etc. and it just makes it so hard for me Anyway, I need this thread for myself to jot my feelings and stuff and to make sure that I don't continue to use my ex as a crutch for my anxiety. No Contact sucks Yuck. If he loves you and cares about you, if he has hope for you in the future why isn't he with you? Why do you have to wait around for him? What's the hold up? After you've grown? After he's grown, he'll find someone else to date leaving you with nothing. NC does suck. We're all in this together, we HAVE to stay strong. I told my ex to leave me alone and blocked her number. I've been going crazy since knowing she can't contact me. If we have any plans on moving on we have to stay strong. 1
Author Missing Him Posted January 5, 2013 Author Posted January 5, 2013 The relationship was long distance, and it required me moving to be with him. I think, as it was both of our first relationships, he just wasn't feeling confident enough about that. I don't know - I can't speak for what he's feeling and ultimately I guess it doesn't matter what he's feeling after he made the decision to break up. Thank you for your support! It's definitely tough, but the longer I've gone without it, the more I realize how important it is.
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