Mr.White Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I have constantly been having dreams of my ex. Could it be my sub conscious still thinking of her, I still think of her on a daily basis at least a few times a day but it does not hurt anymore. It feels weird for her to always be in my dreams because she rarely was before and I rarely had dreams before. My dream of 1/5/2013: Today's dream is how she has had heart problems (she does have minor heart problems in real life) and how her heart stopped beating. She was in a car with a random guy I did not know and I tried to revive her heart with a defibrillator but to no avail which I then told the guy to call 911, with firefighters coming to revive her. Woke up and was totally like WTF?
portableversion Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 ive been experienceing the same thing. Yeah its odd i never dreamed of her before but now it happens fairly regularly. The last one was no big deal. I had it last night. It was a boring hum drum situation where we were just hanging out. It stinks cause i wake up and see im here in my aprtment all alone, i miss her so much. Or at least the idea any way, she had such a nasty temper and ive learned from my therapist about how she was abusive on many levels. oh geez
XKatieX Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I'm going through the same thing you are. I had a dream last night where he came back and wanted to work on things. It really screwed me up. I really think that once we reach the acceptance stage of the grief process, these dreams will become less and less, and hopefully not at all anymore. Unfortunately we dream about things that we think about throughout the day, so there's no way of avoiding it really.
user6667 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 i dreamed of her last night. we were on the bus and i helped her reach something. i held her back and legs. it felt so real. then the bus was gone and we were on the phone. (present time, after breakup) i told her "oh yeah? but if i close my eyes i can still feel how it feels to touch you". then i cried on the phone, in the dream. then i woke up in the middle of the g.. d... night and cried for real.
Author Mr.White Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 Thank you all for your input, I am glad I am not the only one dreaming of my ex! I have accepted that she has left me, she is not my one true love and that she is not coming back. I guess time is just what I need. Keep your heads up everyone, life goes on so don't dwell in the past!
NoMoreJerks Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I've been having dreams about my ex almost every day since he broke up with me (14 days now), except for the past 2 days. Knock on wood, I hope I have gotten over the worst... My dreams are basically all variations of the following scenario: He dumps me, then comes back and asks for forgiveness and asks for a second chance..
sharsh Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I keep having dreams of mine as well. Even though, emotionally I feel better now. This mornings dream I don't remember. The night before, I was taking a bath and he was washing my hair, and I just remember looking into his eyes and feeling like he loved me. .... The other dream I remember, he was with his 'new' girlfriend, she was a blonde in my dream, and they were sitting with me, but talking about their new love life in explicit detail, I got pis*ed off and started a fist fight with her. Then woke up. Then there are the other reoccurring dreams where he comes back into my life, trying to reconcile, and restart the relationship again, to which almost every dream I say NO to him. Blah. I just want them to stop.
winstonsdreams Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Yep been there they will pass, stay NC and move forward, don't look back.
MyAngel Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Yes me too! I dream of her a lot, much more than when we were together.
Minadee Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Agree with MyAngel, I never ever dreamed of my ex when we were together. Usually my dreams are sad, and I wake up upset, but recently they've been more about sex dreams which makes me question my conscience. *shrug*
spaniard Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 2-3 months after the BU I had reams about her EVERY NIGHT for like 2-3 weeks. it was crazy. I had every kind of dreams. Then just as unexpectedly as they arrived, they never happened anymore.
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