rn0408 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Here is a funny situation and I sadly will decide not to be friends with this girl after this happened ( I broke up with her) and this is what I decided to do..I highly enourage you all to do the same So this girl I dated and was good friends with for like 10 years..we decided to date. It was shocking how she actually was and was immature, excessively drank, had bad self-esteem issues, and was full of drama. I was shocked with what I was dating and the character of this person who I have known. I know now why she's not material to get back together. I gave her the line "I dont want to ruin our friendship," after a fight over NOTHING. Here it goes: Both of us are very busy in school and I decided to see how she did after a rough semester, we talked on the phone as friends but I soon found out she wanted more than a friend. Text messages.. Me: (day before) How did the semester go Her(day before) Great! how did yours go Me: good Next day Her: Im Bored Me: If I wasnt in a wedding, I would probably meet up, you can tell me how the semster went Her: Want to make out? Me: This isnt ___? Who is this on her phone Her: Ya, it is..it's just this detox program I am in is driving me nuts Me: No this isnt ___ I call her and see whats going on and she tells me "I need a tough man..." I know she has feelings for me and sounds desperate. I'm giving her the silent treatment lol..The reason for the breakup was she wanted a break because she was scared to ask me if this is turning into a relationship and I told her I'm not ruining the friendship. She was truely honest and I believe her. She was a major pushover My advice to the guys and girls out there...you don't need to date somebody with self-esteem issues..it's not your problem. She was very good looking, smart, and was shocked when I told her she was a good kisser.
Author rn0408 Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 She sent me another text today..silent treatment does numbers
beyond Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Here is a funny situation and I sadly will decide not to be friends with this girl after this happened ( I broke up with her) and this is what I decided to do..I highly enourage you all to do the same So this girl I dated and was good friends with for like 10 years..we decided to date. It was shocking how she actually was and was immature, excessively drank, had bad self-esteem issues, and was full of drama. I was shocked with what I was dating and the character of this person who I have known. I know now why she's not material to get back together. I gave her the line "I dont want to ruin our friendship," after a fight over NOTHING. Here it goes: Both of us are very busy in school and I decided to see how she did after a rough semester, we talked on the phone as friends but I soon found out she wanted more than a friend. Text messages.. Me: (day before) How did the semester go Her(day before) Great! how did yours go Me: good Next day Her: Im Bored Me: If I wasnt in a wedding, I would probably meet up, you can tell me how the semster went Her: Want to make out? Me: This isnt ___? Who is this on her phone Her: Ya, it is..it's just this detox program I am in is driving me nuts Me: No this isnt ___ I call her and see whats going on and she tells me "I need a tough man..." I know she has feelings for me and sounds desperate. I'm giving her the silent treatment lol..The reason for the breakup was she wanted a break because she was scared to ask me if this is turning into a relationship and I told her I'm not ruining the friendship. She was truely honest and I believe her. She was a major pushover My advice to the guys and girls out there...you don't need to date somebody with self-esteem issues..it's not your problem. She was very good looking, smart, and was shocked when I told her she was a good kisser. Don't understand any of this or why you think it's funny. Fine, you broke up with someone who had self esteem issues, but you almost seem like you are mocking her.
Jono85 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Don't understand any of this or why you think it's funny. Fine, you broke up with someone who had self esteem issues, but you almost seem like you are mocking her. this. what the heck was this all about?? seems like you're looking for an ego boost by treating her like crap? good stuff..
jags2bowl27 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 no let me explain what hes doing, hes a ****ing ass hole that has no regard for human beings. We get it, she hurt you but instead of having your head held high that this wasnt all your fault, now you gave her justification of why she dumped your pathetic ass. god that felt good
Honiebee Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 Be good if you could explain which exact bits are so rib ticklingly hilarious. The part where you are blatantly taking the P*** out of her? She might be hurting- or is that also the funny bit? I don't get it, sorry.
Author rn0408 Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 There are 5 reasons I broke up with her: (1) She wanted a break over nothing (2) She drank too much (3) She tried playing games (as I stated before) (4) She has self-esteem issues (5) She tried to get me involved with friend drama and get me against my friend MAJOR RED FLAG...She says she gets in fights when shes drunk
Author rn0408 Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 no let me explain what hes doing, hes a ****ing ass hole that has no regard for human beings. We get it, she hurt you but instead of having your head held high that this wasnt all your fault, now you gave her justification of why she dumped your pathetic ass. god that felt good She didn't hurt me actually. I basicaly said "whatever" and realized it's better we are good friends. With playing games like that..somebody deserves the silent treatment. Sorry but some people that have issues and self-esteem issues..not your problem.
jags2bowl27 Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 There are 5 reasons I broke up with her: (1) She wanted a break over nothing (2) She drank too much (3) She tried playing games (as I stated before) (4) She has self-esteem issues (5) She tried to get me involved with friend drama and get me against my friend MAJOR RED FLAG...She says she gets in fights when shes drunk Okay then walk away and don't mock her, no one here cares what you do honestly... I just know if my ex came back I wouldn't act like an ignorant ass hole.... I'd be direct but still be there for her. You obviously never loved her
Author rn0408 Posted January 6, 2013 Author Posted January 6, 2013 Okay then walk away and don't mock her, no one here cares what you do honestly... I just know if my ex came back I wouldn't act like an ignorant ass hole.... I'd be direct but still be there for her. You obviously never loved her Actually it was taken right, slow, and we dated for 3 months. I saw red flags and a whole darker side in this individual I have never seen before. Her best friend is also a control freak and manipulates her. Her best friend thinks she will be in congress lol.
Joyvke Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 I honestly don't understand the point of this thread. Like others say it feels you are sort of mocking her behavior. You don't want to be in a relation with her, but do you still want to be friends with her or what's the deal here?
Bluem Posted January 6, 2013 Posted January 6, 2013 What did you want from us? An applause for leaving someone? Hopefully this girl finds someone to help her through her problems and love her instead of mocking her. Hopefully people have told her she's better off without you as a "friend".
Bumaga vsyo sterpit Posted January 7, 2013 Posted January 7, 2013 Why didn't you make out with the nice girl Rennie?
Author rn0408 Posted January 7, 2013 Author Posted January 7, 2013 My statement and reason for the post is this: (1) you can't change people (2) a break means it's over (3) if somebody plays games...CUT EM (4) excessive alcohol...watch out!
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