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Ex dumped me 4 week ago. Together for 2.5 years and had an house together. He said he doesn't think he loves me anymore, but he agreed to have space and think about it for a while and then meet up for a date to see if the spark is there.

 

Anyway, I went out a week ago and me and my friend ended up hanging out with two other men. They were really nice and it was all pretty innocent, one of them wasn't drinking so we ended up in the car with them and drove to another club.

 

During the drive there, I took a photo of my friend pretending to drink vodka she'd found in the car and I just put 'in car drinking vodka with random men' it was only a bit of fun, and to be honest It was not to make him jealous because he told me before he stopped using twitter and instagram because he knew i went on a lot.

 

The next morning, I wake up to two texts. One saying 'I know you'll be hungover from all the fun you're having as I've seen your instagram, but just wondering if we could change our date to tonight or next friday because I would rather go on a day that I'm not hungover (is leaving doo for work was the day before we was meant to meet)

 

Then second text said: 'oh and don't be offended, I have unfollowed you on twitter and Instagram because I don't want to know when you're with other men.

 

I acted really cool about it and in the end he said he didn't think he was ready to go on a date with me... so going from one extreme of jealousy to not wanting to go on a date!

 

What is going on?

We've agreed on N/C and to try and think positively during this break up in hope it will mean we can date again. I just don't know whats going on.

 

An outsiders opinion would help!

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