mellum Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I have been seeing this guy for 9 weeks now (long distance). Initially I was fine and secure until last week. I went up to stay for 5 days and it was wonderful. He was affectionate, loving, basically the guy I've always been looking for in my life. He's very sensitive and romantic. But he is where it gets tricky. He has aloott of female friends who he hangs out with. Which like I said wasn't a problem initially. Until one night, I looked on his face book messages, biggest mistake I've ever made but there was messages from this woman who was saying how much she missed him and his cuddles etc and there was a picture of them hugging with their faces together. I was distraught, left the room and into the bathroom. He sensed my vibe had changed so he checked his internet history and came to confront me. It got very emotional - I cried, he cried and he said she was only a friend and that I could even ask her or check his hotmail or the rest of his messages. I declined as I felt awful for what I did. Anyway, we sorted everything it, I bared my soul to him and explained my insecurities. Now that I am home, I keep thinking about what I saw/read. Should I break it off with him?
Casablanca Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I assume the message was sent after you two started going out? If so, be done with him, sounds like a player
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