makeitright Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 My girlfriend left me a week ago. She said she was unhappy and didn't want to try and make it work. We lived together for 4 years and she stated reasons that the romance stopped coming, that we were spending too much time apart with friends, that I wasn't treating her right. She's right on all counts. But all of those issues can be corrected because I'm willing to change it. Over 4 years i got comfortable and that was a mistake I should have stayed the man I was when we met. But she left.. asked for space.. this week has been hard to give her space we ended up talking twice once face to face and once over the phone.. each time me telling her not to leave to give our love a chance that all relationships have periods of unhappiness that you have to be willing to work through them to make it work. I was one month from proposing! Tonight is hard because her family and friends are contacting me not sure what to do. She's not listening to their advice and she's making rash decisions.. They say they don't know who she is right now and they're worried. I'm making the mistake of contacting a few of her friends I don't know that well that I know she is listening to .. but I feel that will only push her farther away. I'm just so concerned and I love her so much I don't want her to get hurt. I'm not sure what to do. She told me she was thinking of going on a date with an ex who's currently separated from his wife but still married. It seems like she's moving on so fast joining a bowling league of her ex.
fixing Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I know its a very hard place your in right now. But you MUST stop calling her friends and DONT call your EX, anymore. Completley disappear for a while. You have told her you love her and want to make it work. Thats enough now. She knows what you want. Anymore persistence from you will ONLY make it worse. Just post here if you feel low. 1
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