genetic Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 This is the situation me and my ex now dated for 6 months i know its not long. Her dad got angry at me about 2 months ago because it was finals and i had called real late abou at 3 am but that to help her with her finals. He forbid her to talk to me call me, email me, and so on. So the next day my gf calls and notifies me saying that everythings going to be alright dont worry and i will surely wait 2 months and you mean eveyrthing to me. So i knew this was a recipe for failure but i decided to wait becuase i have trust in her and she means alot to me and like everybody has said you dont know what your missing until its gone. So 2 hectic months passed by. Registration for school was about to come up and i would be able to see her but that was something i now dread. The 6 months when we were together we were inseperable and i thought over a couple months when we were back it would be the same but i was wrong. It was akward for the both of us seeing each other she approached me and we just had a regular conversation and then i asked so what about us. She said its been 2 months we have grown apart and then her dad was still mad. I need your help to know what the hell am i suposed to do in this situation. I'm physically sick as well thrown up for a day straight not beign able to eat and looking extremely ****ty right now. But the reason i feel ****ier is becuase of her promisses that she gave me and the way she hooked me on to her. She told me she had never met a guy like me before that she loved me and it would be like that forever. And i know your goign to tell me to move on but its weird becuase i'm not mad or angry more depressed then anything. And truely out of my pespective i wasnt a bad boyfriend i bought alot of things to her for example sterling silver neccklaces and earings. Tickets to games that she liked. And spent at least one time every weekend with her and saw her every day for hours. And unforutnally i'm a loser missing that feeling. She did give me a ray of hope tellingme that we might be able to get back together even though i told her not to lead me on. I dont know what do in my situation how would i make her come back to me and how do i calm her dad over such an obsurd stupid thing. Thanks
EC Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 This girl sounds like she used the excuse of her father getting mad to get rid of you. I think she will play with you if you let her so be strong , move on and sing a song. I said sing a song cuz it rhymed. lol (I know I'm nuts) But seriously, try being her friend again and only her friend so that maybe you too will become comfortable again. If that doesn't work then you have to accept that something are just not meant to be. Besides your young and I'm pretty sure she won't be your last girlfriend.
Author genetic Posted August 18, 2004 Author Posted August 18, 2004 thanks alot dude but the dad being mad thing isnt an excuse its true her dad is uhh ****ed up lol like mad alot for little things hes strict as **** i know hes mad bcuz i heard him. and also me and her are friends already back even though we just broke up but i mean antyhing else?
Author genetic Posted August 19, 2004 Author Posted August 19, 2004 can anybody help me or am i doomed to failure sorry to be urgent
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