kristi628 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 My ex an his new gf have said I love you in a month! I can't stop crying right now. I'm shaking. I was cheated on then left for the other girl and weeks later they are in love?!?! WTF is happening? After he made such a big deal about how e doesn't feel love like the normal person. He doesn't have normal emotions. How can he love we then? This makes me sick. Sorry for the quick and annoying vent.
na49 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Think about it this way, when someone says they love someone/something do they really mean it? There are different types of love. I love pizza. but I don't love pizza like I love my family. Maybe not the best example, but don't stress over it. It's over, and it's been over. I know seeing them say it still hurts. In a way I'm happy I'm reading your thread because I had thoughts of snooping on my ex and seeing if she was with someone. I know if I saw her saying that she "loved" someone else, I would lose it. How did you find out that he said that anyway?
Toddbt12y1 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 What makes you think he feels love, like a normal person right now? Words, that's all it is. Anyone can say they love someone...doesn't mean anything. Love has always been action, not word. His actions: deceit. Lies. Betrayal. He doesn't know love. Do you know that everyone these days, that jump into a new relationship after another, all tell these people they love them and likewise? No one moves slow anymore. They don't love each other...same lame words. Love is built upon time...not instant sight, like silly school-girls think. Calm down please...I really don't want you crying Kristi...you're a great woman hug*.
denxnis Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Kristi, I know this information helped me when I saw my ex post pictures of her and the new bf; maybe it will help you. Relationships spawned from infidelity have less than a 1% chance of success. Take this time to get smarter, healthier, and just in general improve yourself. I'll bet when your ex's relationship crumbles you will be glad you took this time to improve yourself instead of jump into another relationship.
Author kristi628 Posted January 5, 2013 Author Posted January 5, 2013 I guess that's why it hurts. I thought we took things slow. Got to know each other first. I thought we had a normal progression in our relationship. Which is why I felt this one was different than others that wanted to rush. And now this relationship has moved faster than anything and makes me question our entire relationship. And to be honest I don't think this girl knows their relationship stated out of infidelity. I'm sure he told her we were broken up. And yet just that week we had gotten back together. Disnt take long to realize he would rather start something new than work on us.
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