LoveHurts88 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 (edited) My other stories can also be found on other threads.. What I realize is that I love my ex, and if she comes back I would take her back even though I said I wouldn't before. I tried something new with a different girl and it was not the same, I don't think it will ever be the same what me and my ex shared what we had. 5 months into the break up of a 2 year relationship (Her longest and mine as well) and I still love her to death. Whats broken even repaired will never be the same. Unless she comes back no relationship ever again will be the same. I don't want to unfair for other people I date. Maybe I shouldn't date until I'm completely over her. She's with someone else and I don't plan on ruining anything for them. It just so weird I can tell when she's going to msg me and she would. I would listen to this song this reminds me of her and she would msg me. If she comes back around she will but if not I know I'll also be fine because I've been doing okay without her for the past 5 months. Her sister asked if she still thought about me she said not much anymore, thats because me and her went LC we barely talked. I know this girl inside out, I can tell you what she's thinking what she wants to eat what she wants to do. She was my everything.. Only thing left for me to do is live my life, and if she comes back she comes back. But I KNOW she will i just know her too damn well. Fate brought us together in the first place, if we were meant to be in the end I know it will happen again. It's just a matter of time Edited January 4, 2013 by LoveHurts88
denxnis Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 From the looks of it you have been on this forum for a while and from the looks of it your attitude hasn't changed much. You will never get out of this depression/mindset if you continue to do the same things over and over again. The reason you feel like this is because you keep worrying about being lonely or never finding the right person. This woman chose to be with someone else, leave her the hell alone. Even if she contacts you it's time to man up and move on. Moving on doesn't mean getting with another girl or going clubbing, it means going back to becoming an awesome YOU. Let me repeat that, focus on becoming an awesome YOU. You feel the way you feel because of the way you are thinking. Stop thinking you won't find someone better. Stop thinking she is perfect. Stop thinking you will never get better. Start thinking about how/why you will be a better person this year than you were last. Start thinking about how you are going to begin enjoying being single for the time being. The love of your life is out there RIGHT NOW praying that she runs into a guy like you; the problem is you aren't ready to meet her based on your current emotional "status". 2
jags2bowl27 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I agree, your thought process Is ass backwards
Gingerxr2 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 From the looks of it you have been on this forum for a while and from the looks of it your attitude hasn't changed much. You will never get out of this depression/mindset if you continue to do the same things over and over again. The reason you feel like this is because you keep worrying about being lonely or never finding the right person. This woman chose to be with someone else, leave her the hell alone. Even if she contacts you it's time to man up and move on. Moving on doesn't mean getting with another girl or going clubbing, it means going back to becoming an awesome YOU. Let me repeat that, focus on becoming an awesome YOU. You feel the way you feel because of the way you are thinking. Stop thinking you won't find someone better. Stop thinking she is perfect. Stop thinking you will never get better. Start thinking about how/why you will be a better person this year than you were last. Start thinking about how you are going to begin enjoying being single for the time being. The love of your life is out there RIGHT NOW praying that she runs into a guy like you; the problem is you aren't ready to meet her based on your current emotional "status". Love it ! Mate seriously I 100% know what your going and I'm sure most people on here do , and it's not easy!! , but if your a ferm believer in fate you need to look at this in a different angle , maybe fate split you up ? Maybe something wasn't right and it wasn't going to work out long term ? And it's better to do it now than in 10 years when your married with kids ? , you have to change the way your thinking and let go and move on , like it's been said become the awesome you? !! If its ment to be it will be , but waiting and hoping wont change anything apart more disappointment if it doesn't happen , if your fated to be together you moving on wont stop you anyway , but if not you haven't wasted your time !! It's your choice mate , you can only make the choice yourself , good luck mate 1
Simon Phoenix Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 Yeah, you really need to get past the "putting her on a pedestal" stage.
skylark100 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 From the looks of it you have been on this forum for a while and from the looks of it your attitude hasn't changed much. You will never get out of this depression/mindset if you continue to do the same things over and over again. The reason you feel like this is because you keep worrying about being lonely or never finding the right person. This woman chose to be with someone else, leave her the hell alone. Even if she contacts you it's time to man up and move on. Moving on doesn't mean getting with another girl or going clubbing, it means going back to becoming an awesome YOU. Let me repeat that, focus on becoming an awesome YOU. You feel the way you feel because of the way you are thinking. Stop thinking you won't find someone better. Stop thinking she is perfect. Stop thinking you will never get better. Start thinking about how/why you will be a better person this year than you were last. Start thinking about how you are going to begin enjoying being single for the time being. The love of your life is out there RIGHT NOW praying that she runs into a guy like you; the problem is you aren't ready to meet her based on your current emotional "status". Perfect response. It's about learning, becoming a better person and letting go. You'd be amazed at how much negative energy you release by letting go. Fate is not real. It's created in our heads to justify events. We control our lives by the decisions we make. She made hers, and it's time for you to become awesome once again...by making yours. Let go.
Author LoveHurts88 Posted January 5, 2013 Author Posted January 5, 2013 I am trying to let go. I thought I was pretty much over her until I met this new girl and then for some reason all the feelings came rushing back. I was told to never love someone more than u love urself. I still love her than I love myself and I really do need to move on. I've tried for the past 5 months to let go but my mind and my heart is just not letting me move on
Tmo2 Posted January 5, 2013 Posted January 5, 2013 I am trying to let go. I thought I was pretty much over her until I met this new girl and then for some reason all the feelings came rushing back. I was told to never love someone more than u love urself. I still love her than I love myself and I really do need to move on. I've tried for the past 5 months to let go but my mind and my heart is just not letting me move on I feel you man, you say you ''really need to move on'' -- This is your intelligence talking - You know what is best for yourself... When you say ''I've tried for the past 5 months to let go but my mind and my heart is just not letting me move on'' This is the mind talking. The mind always plays tricks on us.. It is the one saying ''common just one more drink''... Use your intelligence, Remember why it is good for you to move on. You can do it! Tell your mind to ''shut the fu.ck up'' use your intelligence and move on.
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