almosteverythingx Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Me and my partner were madly in love ( bet you've heard that one many times before on here) I'd lost my mum previously before the relationship and then lost my dad 3 week before we got together. So he was a huge support to me emotionally. We were togethr for 2.5 years Anyway, I lived with him and his parents for about 8-9 months. Things were good but then with my inheritance I purchased a house. We didn't want it to be all serious as we are only 21 it was just we got on so well living together at his parents we thought it would be different. We moved in September and things went down hill after 2 months, the spark died, and he said he started feeling unhappy 3 weeks prior to our break up, he said due to arguing (no serious arguments just really married couple arguments) and that made him in the end dump me and said he 'didn't know if he loved me anymore'. We haven't been together for a month, and he keeps breaking the no contact rule, the maximum days is 4 that he's gone without making conversation. He said he is trying to think positively and is frustrated in a way that his feelings have just 'gone'. What would your advice be for me? Do you think he has the case of GIGS? Note He has unfollowed me on twitter/instagram etc as he doesn't want to see if I'm 'with other men' after a photo I had getting drunk with one. Also, in October whilst discussing people getting engaged he said to me 'it will be sooner than you think' about us getting engaged... (not that I was too bothered as I'm still very young) He also told a couple when we was on holiday he would 'marry me tomorrow if he could' Back in July... Oh how things change.
Treasa Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Tell him not to contact you unless he decides he KNOWS he wants you. If he attempts to argue or break contact again, block him.
Author almosteverythingx Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Tell him not to contact you unless he decides he KNOWS he wants you. If he attempts to argue or break contact again, block him. I did this a few days ago and he said he won't contact me, would you say this could be a case of GIGS?
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