Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I live in a semi-diverse area in California (it's around 50% Caucasian and 50% Asian), and I've been attracted to quite a few Caucasian girls throughout my life. Some of my Asian friends have dated White girls but I'm not sure about you girls' general idea of dating an Asian man... I'm 5'10, quite athletic/built, and I think I'm a fun guy to be around once you get to know me. (For UK users: by Asian I mean east Asian like Korean, Japanese, Vietnamese, etc.) Be 100% honest ladies would you date someone like me?
Emilia Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Question: Would you say OP that every man's taste is the same on this planet?
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Definitely not, I just wanted to get a rough percentage of girls who would.
Arabella Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I'm white, and my boyfriend is Chinese (American born). To be fair, however, prior to him I'd never considered asian men in general attractive. He kinda broke the mold. -A
Emilia Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I'm white, and my boyfriend is Chinese (American born). To be fair, however, prior to him I'd never considered asian men in general attractive. He kinda broke the mold. -A I think every single person on this planet is surprised sometimes whom they find themselves attracted to. Which is why it's impossible to give a truthful response to the original post. 1
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 I think every single person on this planet is surprised sometimes whom they find themselves attracted to. Which is why it's impossible to give a truthful response to the original post. Sorry I don't know what you mean by that could you explain?
Arabella Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I think every single person on this planet is surprised sometimes whom they find themselves attracted to. Which is why it's impossible to give a truthful response to the original post. That is very true. I'd never considered an Asian man as a potential lover before because I did not consider them physically attractive. Then I met him, and suddenly something clicked, mentally as much as physically. So, take that for what you will. -A
KathyM Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I would have when I was single. There was a very cute and sweet Asian guy that I had a crush on in high school. He was in college at the time.
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 I'm white, and my boyfriend is Chinese (American born). To be fair, however, prior to him I'd never considered asian men in general attractive. He kinda broke the mold. -A Hmm interesting but I completely understand... Do you usually only find white men attractive in general or do you find other ethnicities to be attractive as well?
mammasita Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Who cares? Why don't you just find a woman who will like you for you and not your race. There are women out there like that you know. 2
Emilia Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Sorry I don't know what you mean by that could you explain? That is very true. I'd never considered an Asian man as a potential lover before because I did not consider them physically attractive. Then I met him, and suddenly something clicked, mentally as much as physically. So, take that for what you will. -A Arabella clarified it for you
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Arabella clarified it for you Ok I sorta get it thank you! But what do you mean I can't get truthful responses?
Emilia Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 But what do you mean I can't get truthful responses? Because people don't know themselves. When you are younger you start out thinking 'I want a tall, blone guy with blue eyes' then you get out into the real world and someone very cute who is short will make you realise you value cheekiness or a funny/teasing personality more. Then you meet a red head, slightly over-weight or skinny guy who is very clever and impresses you with his sharpness and dry humour, etc. People a lot of time don't know what they find really attractive - at least while they are young and relatively inexperienced - until it hits them in the face. Sure there are lots that are closed minded and will not try anything different but there are lots who will like you for who you are. you just need to get out and talk to girls. You won't get anything that resembles your life here on an internet forum. 1
Arabella Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Hmm interesting but I completely understand... Do you usually only find white men attractive in general or do you find other ethnicities to be attractive as well? Yes. Just not Asian for some reason. That has changed, obviously -A
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Yes. Just not Asian for some reason. That has changed, obviously -A Did you not because of lack of exposure or for what reason? By Asian do you include east Indians?
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Because people don't know themselves. When you are younger you start out thinking 'I want a tall, blone guy with blue eyes' then you get out into the real world and someone very cute who is short will make you realise you value cheekiness or a funny/teasing personality more. Then you meet a red head, slightly over-weight or skinny guy who is very clever and impresses you with his sharpness and dry humour, etc. People a lot of time don't know what they find really attractive - at least while they are young and relatively inexperienced - until it hits them in the face. Sure there are lots that are closed minded and will not try anything different but there are lots who will like you for who you are. you just need to get out and talk to girls. You won't get anything that resembles your life here on an internet forum. Ok that's a good explanation thanks for your input!
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 Yes. Just not Asian for some reason. That has changed, obviously -A Do you include east Indians as Asian as well? Did you not find them attractive because of lack of exposure or for what reason?
Treasa Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I've dated Asian men, black men, white men (I'm white), etc. Although I don't generalize, I've very rarely found an Asian-American man unattractive.
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 I've dated Asian men, black men, white men (I'm white), etc. Although I don't generalize, I've very rarely found an Asian-American man unattractive. I hope you mean that :/
Treasa Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 I hope you mean that :/ I do! I really love different cultures, languages, looks, etc. I've said it before and I'll say it again: If a guy can keep up with me in bed and isn't an *******, I'm a happy woman.
jcrew11 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 This is one of those questions that if you have to ask, then the answer for your individual situation is "no" - I'm kidding. Also, in much of America outside of the west coast, the population is mostly white with a few asians in the cities. So the only exposure a woman may have to asian men is through the few asians in the media. But even with media exposure, that is a question of "attraction" and not a question of "dating/marriage." The only option you have is to actually talk to girls face to face and develop a relationship/friendship, and then take it to the next level. Even if attraction never existed prior to your interaction, by displaying your personality you can create attraction. Find a girl you like, and then get to know her, and have her get to know you. Even if you are trying to multi-date, you can't create attraction without spending time with these women. Now, then you have to consider "dating/marriage." Women want a boyfriend/husband that they are comfortable around, that makes them feel safe. They want a guy that is friendly, cool, stable, confident, with a good job. They want a guy that shares their hobbies and their interests. Now, the question of race isn't as much of a factor as the question of Religion. If she is Christian, then she will prefer to marry a christian guy or one who is willing to convert. If she is atheist, then she will like being around other atheists. Religion is often one of the deal-breakers in marriage and which religion to raise the children.
Author Jacobchen Posted January 4, 2013 Author Posted January 4, 2013 This is one of those questions that if you have to ask, then the answer for your individual situation is "no" - I'm kidding. Also, in much of America outside of the west coast, the population is mostly white with a few asians in the cities. So the only exposure a woman may have to asian men is through the few asians in the media. But even with media exposure, that is a question of "attraction" and not a question of "dating/marriage." The only option you have is to actually talk to girls face to face and develop a relationship/friendship, and then take it to the next level. Even if attraction never existed prior to your interaction, by displaying your personality you can create attraction. Find a girl you like, and then get to know her, and have her get to know you. Even if you are trying to multi-date, you can't create attraction without spending time with these women. Now, then you have to consider "dating/marriage." Women want a boyfriend/husband that they are comfortable around, that makes them feel safe. They want a guy that is friendly, cool, stable, confident, with a good job. They want a guy that shares their hobbies and their interests. Now, the question of race isn't as much of a factor as the question of Religion. If she is Christian, then she will prefer to marry a christian guy or one who is willing to convert. If she is atheist, then she will like being around other atheists. Religion is often one of the deal-breakers in marriage and which religion to raise the children. Well yeah I live on the west coast so the women have exposure to my kind. That being said, yes I think I should talk to more girls :|
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