MM complaints about wife

[Sauron]

You got to be the epitome of the selfishness... reread your comment, is so funny how you sift the blame from the cheater to the cheated... so now the victims are the guilty ones.. o poor man who is forced to cheat... what a shame the life has wrong you so badly so you need to go and screw around....

We bitter evil BS's who have deceived our WS so badly so the poor ones had to look for love somewhere else... right? I just find funny how you can color your world with that kind of bull$hit.

 

By the way how does your wife not contribute to your assets since you acquired them when you were married to her?? Was she not taking care of your children and house so you could gain those assets? How can you be so lame?

 

You are a perfect group memeber, the blameless, I did no wrong, I was F'd over by my WS because I was perfect to him or her. Like I sad grow up and plug into reality.

[Sauron]

You are not the first in the group to point that out. Just a screen name. Nice chatting with you, have a great day.

[waterwoman]

I think this forum is not the "we are the wronged BS" forum, this forum is about infidelity and that involves more than BS. You all act like you were so wronged, but if you look in the mirror and ask yourself what role you played in letting your marriage get to that point, would you say you had none? That any of you were without blame?.

 

I guess it depends on how you define 'blame'. I am more than prepared to admit my marriage wasn't in a great shape. And H and I were both to blame for that. And neither of us attempted to fix it thoroughly enough to do any good. But H's affair wasn't an attempt to 'fix' anything or an attempt to get something he wanted elsewhere, it was an unexpected opportunity that he made the most of. If either of us had taken the harder route of mending our marriage before this it presumably wouldn't have happened. He and I are having to do that now and f*ck me it's hard work!!

[buckeyeblue]

Sauron - he cheated because he is a selfish a** - and that was said by his own mother! We did not have a bad marriage. I just chose the wrong person. Looking back, there were obvious signs, e.g. telling our children that it is okay to cheat on homework "if they have a good reason", coming from a family where both parents cheated and they just "rugswept" and drank to forget the pain. My "fault" came in marrying someone who I thought was someone else.

 

There is absolutely no reason for him to fight the divorce. We are both financially independent and make good money. We will both see our children as much as we want. There are none of the usual excuses. Yet, he doesn't want to divorce. Too bad and too late.

 

And you are wrong. I am sad for my children - they are truly great kids who love their father but have really not liked him much for a long time, even before his affair. I am not bitter, however. I have a great job and already have several dating prospects (although I won't date until I am divorced). I am doing much better emotionally than he is. My feelings about your postings are born from my values and my sense of decency. Your postings always sound like you are trying to talk yourself into believing the garbage that you spew. You should explore that.

[William]

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