Geminigyrl_2003 Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 My best friend for 4 years has stolen 2 of my boyfriends when we were so serious. She'd call my boyfriend and tell lies about fantasies of havin sex wit them. Then she'd be all in my face the next mornin at skool like aint nothin happended. Then i get a phone call and my boyfriend tells me there's somebody else. Twice!!! Two different boys!!! At skool i almost fought her but my other friends didnt want me to becuz i had a goood reputation and everybody liked me. But she still talks to me and sometimes i dont know wut to say to her. She even hunched my brother. I dont know wut to say to her but when i do talk to her everybody dogs me for talkin to her. what to do????
honey2005 Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 Why do you call her your friend? Someone like that is NOT the kind of person I would want to be my friend. My advice is to just stay away from her. If she doesn't know what's going on in your life she won't be around stealing your boyfriends. But hey, if your bf would go off with ur best friend just because she told him she wanted to have sex with him, what kind of a bf would that be? Maybe in a weird, quirky, freaky, loser friend kind of way she did you a favor.
kirkyswife Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 I'm with Honey on this - what makes this person your best friend? First and foremost, most girlfriends but especially best friends know the golden rule - we don't get down with one another's men (past or present). My friends and I do not compete - we are equals and respect one another for our individual talents. We have morals and values and despite personal flaws would never want to be seconds to our friends. Furthermore, I have no interest in "sharing" with my friends - it's disgusting. I think you should decide what a friend truly is and then eliminate those who do not exemplify that definition. Take care of you!
ziggue Posted August 18, 2004 Posted August 18, 2004 I agree with Honey too. Maybe she reckons she thinks she is just testing out the guys for you. Whether they would actually cheat on you or not. Or it could be jealousy. They are taking to much of your time up. So she tries to get rid of them just so she can hang out with you more. Wouldn't want a friend like that at all either. Wouldn't be able to trust someone like that at all. With any guy. Lol. . I wouldn't like a friend like that. My friends and I don't share our boyfriends or go out with eachother's Ex's at all. It's kind of like an unsaid known rule in our group. Lol. One of my friends friend slept with her Ex a couple of years ago. She's not friends with that girl anymore. Has never forgotten what she did either. To me it's not worth loosing a friendship over.
morrigan Posted August 19, 2004 Posted August 19, 2004 Geminigyrl, the girl you are describing sounds insecure and very manipulative. I don't even believe she considers you a friend, it seems more like she wants to hang out with a girl she can lord over--- "I can steal all of her boyfriends", etc. She acts like a emotional vampire. My closest female friend and I never are interested in the guy the other one likes or is dating (actually she goes for clean cut types, I sure as hell don't.) IMO it's disrespectful to go after a friend's current SO or an ex. The best thing to do is to stop hanging out with her, she won't change her ways. Your former bf's are responsible as well, but this girl just isn't worth the time or effort of a real friendship. Avoid seeing her, tell her you're busy if she wants to do something with you. She'll eventually get the hint, and you can be with people who are true friends.
ShopingBarbie1984 Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 [color=darkblue]Yeah stay away from this girl don't call her your friend change your number ignore her don't play into her game. You can say hi and be nice but don't listen to anything she says to you she is just trying to get you upset and, if she is still talking to you just get the things you need at your locker or something then walk off just don't say anything to her ignore her completley that will show major mature-ity and will show her that you know what is going on and you don't want to have anything to do with her.[/color][color=indigo] Someday she might come up to you and say this guy r a p e d me because, of her foolish act one day the guy's won't want to have anything to do with her. About the guy's well I wouldnt' be near the guy's or date them if they are going to be with your so-called friend or even hang with your so-called friend. If a guy can't love you for you then goes after your friend then I would just not even talk to the guy's don't get in a fight with this girl because, it doesn't sound like it would be worth it. It sounds like she would just do it again even if you do beat her up so it won't be worth it and, just plain stupid if you did beat her up. [/color]
Taken_Angel Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 I completely agree with all the posters! This "girl" I use that term loosely though I think I could find a better word to describe a person like this......is lacking severly is self esteem. She is pumping herself up even if just for a second by "stealing" someone's affections away from you. She obviously doesn't love herself very much if she goes after a boy she knows is seeing someone else (especially someone who is suppossed to be a friend of hers) and having to say sexual things to get their attention is lower than pathetic. It doesn't sound like she thinks she has much more to offer than a pair of open legs!! I sure as heck hope you have NOTHING else to do with her. Also the guys aren't any better running after something that's gonna be used up before she graduates high school (ok ok that was wrong). How does she get these guy's numbers anyway???
EC Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 This girl is such a hater You want naked~~~~~> to handle her? He has a whole posse waiting to choke a b*tch lol
Taken_Angel Posted August 24, 2004 Posted August 24, 2004 This girl is such a hater You want naked~~~~~> to handle her? He has a whole posse waiting to choke a b*tch lol Hahahaha! Good one!
Mary3 Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Thats a friend from Hell ! Um....I love my best friend and she would NEVER do that to me..... We actually went out one nite and she said she liked the guy next to me so I kinda introduced them and they talked....but eventually he wanted my number and I FROZE ! I refused to address it and when she saw my discomfort she told me to go ahead and talk to him. I ended up getting his number and the whole way back to the car I am WORRIED that I have done something wrong like accept his number and shes like ***ITS OKAY*** And Hugggs me !! lol.... Now thats QUITE different than someone just stealing the guys you are interested in....I would LOSE your NON-FRIEND like a bad tainted penny ! Yuck !
Mr Spock Posted August 25, 2004 Posted August 25, 2004 Just cut her out of your life. Don't talk slag about her behind her back to your other friends-don't give her an excuse to feed into the drama she so desperately needs. Don't talk to her. Don't talk about her. Don't take her calls. Don't tell her who you're dating. Let everyone you date know that you won't tolerate that kind of crap from them-ie taking phone calls from her. To you, she's dead. With friends like that, who needs enemies?
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