Luvu2 Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 Hi, just joined. I'm a freshman in college. Got a major crush on a guy in my dorm. School starts back next week. We used to hang out and stuff just as friends but 1:1. I totallly like him and wanna ask him out. I waited the whole semester for him to ask me out on a date. He never did. At least I don't think he did, unless our hangouts were really dates? I'm kinda lost with whatever we are. He has no problems with being physical, nothing over the top sexual though (just hugs, holding hands, back massages). We have undeniable chemistry and like to physically touch each other. We talk like there's no tomorrow too, no prob there. I just used to wait for him to ask me to do stuff. He likes to text but lately I've kinda laid low from texting and facebook. Does he think I'm ignoring him or that I don't want to go out on a date? Cuz I really do. Should I ask him out? How do I ask him out on an actual date without awkardness?
PhoenixRysing Posted January 4, 2013 Posted January 4, 2013 This happens to me all the time. If I'm interested, I always have to make the move. He may very well think he is permanently friend zoned and be presently surprised if you ask him out for something "less friendly." You may find out he likes you just as you are but life is all about taking chances. I don't know about you, but I always got to a point where I was so frustrated with not knowing, that I finally just bit the bullet because that was better than wondering and making myself crazy. Are you OK with it if you stay friends indefinitely? What about him telling you about another girl he starts dating? If not, you may want to just go for it.
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