Men in relationships: what goes through your mind when you see an attractive lady?

[rakel_aki]

Do you compare with your SO?

 

Do you have vivid sexual thoughts of the lady?

 

Is an ego boost if she looks back?

 

How often do you do it? (Haha many women don't even notice it )

 

 

I am trying to get a peak inside the male mind

[jakelongot]

Do you compare with your SO?

 

Do you have vivid sexual thoughts of the lady?

 

Is an ego boost if she looks back?

 

How often do you do it? (Haha many women don't even notice it )

 

 

I am trying to get a peak inside the male mind

 

no.

 

no.

 

yes.

 

If she is worth noticing I will look.

 

We are guys. If we see a beautiful woman we will look...especially if she is wearing something to try to get noticed. But i never for a second think about abandoning the person i'm with for her. If you trust your guy you shouldn't mind if he looks...it's almost like an involuntary reaction

[JamesM]

Do you compare with your SO?

 

Yes, and they lose.

 

Do you have vivid sexual thoughts of the lady?

 

No. Seriously. I may admire her and appreciate her beauty. I may even get a bit turned on. But it is extremely rare that I actually imagine her naked or in bed.

 

Is an ego boost if she looks back?

 

Yes, depending on how she looks at me. A smile with a look is much better than simply a look.

 

How often do you do it? (Haha many women don't even notice it )

 

Whenever a woman attracts my attention enough to look twice. I also do look twice at some women to make them think I am admiring them to give them an ego boost...maybe.

 

 

I am trying to get a peak inside the male mind

 

Good luck!

[TouchedByViolet]

Do you compare with your SO?

 

Do you have vivid sexual thoughts of the lady?

 

Is an ego boost if she looks back?

 

How often do you do it? (Haha many women don't even notice it )

 

 

I am trying to get a peak inside the male mind

 

No.

 

On rare occasion.

 

Yes.

 

Always scanning.

[Kelemvor]

Do you compare with your SO?

 

Do you have vivid sexual thoughts of the lady?

 

Is an ego boost if she looks back?

 

How often do you do it? (Haha many women don't even notice it )

 

 

I am trying to get a peak inside the male mind

 

1. Not really. I mean, sure... most guys think their girl is the "best" in some context but let's not kid ourselves here. There's a woman out there that is physically more attractive than you. That doesn't make her more desirable though, if that makes sense. I'm a nice looking guy, but hey I'm not Brad Pitt or George Clooney. I would also hope my girl wouldn't run off with a movie star that she doesn't know, based purely on a crush. "Hope" is the key word.

 

2. I don't know about vivid, as that implies a concentrated or extended effort but I'd say that I imagine her naked. It's a casual thought though, not something very intense. I'm not going through the Kama Sutra positions in my mind because by the time I start, it's time to start thinking about the ball game on that afternoon or what I want from the vendor stand, or checking my email.

 

3. Of course.

 

4. As someone said, it's almost reflexively involuntary. I doubt most men can help themselves from looking. It's hardwired.